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Nov. 3, 2024

From Rock Bottom to Resilience: Bryan Hayes on Climbing Back After Devastating Losses

From Rock Bottom to Resilience: Bryan Hayes on Climbing Back After Devastating Losses
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The Business Development Podcast

Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of mental health challenges, including mentions of suicide. If you or someone you know is struggling, please remember you’re not alone—help is available. In Canada, you can call or text the suicide hotline at 9-8-8, 24/7.

In this powerful episode of The Business Development Podcast, Kelly Kennedy sits down with Bryan Hayes, founder and president of ElevateX Sales, for a deep and candid conversation on resilience, mental health, and empathy in the world of sales. Bryan opens up about his personal journey from rock bottom to resilience, sharing how he faced life-altering losses in his career and the emotional toll that nearly broke him. He discusses the challenges of navigating the business world after losing high-stakes deals, the mental strain that came with it, and how, at his lowest point, he found the strength to rebuild. With unfiltered honesty, Bryan recounts the role his loved ones and mentors played in helping him regain his sense of purpose and the critical choices that ultimately led to his comeback.


Beyond his inspiring story of resilience, Bryan and Kelly dive into the importance of empathy in sales, exploring how understanding and connecting with clients on a deeper level can redefine success. Bryan explains how his experiences shaped his unique approach to business, emphasizing that genuine relationships are the foundation of impactful sales. Together, they discuss practical ways business owners and sales professionals can incorporate empathy into their interactions, and how Bryan’s journey informed his vision for ElevateX Sales. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to overcome setbacks, find motivation, and approach business with a renewed sense of purpose and authenticity.


Key Takeaways:

1. Embrace resilience in the face of failure; every setback is a chance to rebuild stronger.

2. Empathy is essential in sales; truly seeing things from your client’s perspective creates lasting trust.

3. Lean on your support network during challenging times; loved ones and mentors can be invaluable.

4. Mental health struggles are real in business; seeking help can make a world of difference.

5. In tough moments, remember why you started and what you’re working toward.

6. When deals fall apart, focus on what you learned and how it prepares you for future success.

7. Authenticity in client interactions builds stronger, more meaningful business relationships.

8. Taking a break to reassess your path can lead to new insights and directions.

9. Use adversity as fuel for growth; it can unlock new strengths you didn’t know you had.

10. Developing a unique sales approach that aligns with your values can set you apart in the industry.

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Transcript
Kelly Kennedy

Welcome to episode 182 of the Business Development Podcast.


Kelly Kennedy

And on today's expert guest interview we are chatting with the great Brian Hayes.


Kelly Kennedy

We are chatting all about sales, life and mental health.


Kelly Kennedy

And my gosh, did this episode not go how I thought it would?


Kelly Kennedy

Trigger warning everybody.


Kelly Kennedy

We do talk about suicide in today's episode and if you are struggling with any mental health challenges, the suicide hotline in Canada is 988.


Kelly Kennedy

You can text or call 24 hours a day.


Kelly Kennedy

You are worth it.


Kelly Kennedy

You are valuable.


Kelly Kennedy

There is a light at the end of the tunnel.


Kelly Kennedy

Stick with us.


Kelly Kennedy

You are not going to want to miss this episode.


Mark Cuban

The great Mark Cuban once said, business happens over years and years.


Mark Cuban

Value is measured in the total upside of a business relationship, not by how much you squeezed out in any one deal.


Mark Cuban

And we couldn't agree more.


Mark Cuban

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Mark Cuban

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Let's do it.


Mark Cuban

Welcome to the Business Development Podcast.


Mark Cuban

And now your expert host, Kelly Kennedy.


Kelly Kennedy

Hello.


Kelly Kennedy

Welcome to episode 182 of the Business Development Podcast.


Kelly Kennedy

And today we bring an absolute rockstar expert for you, Brian Hayes.


Kelly Kennedy

Brian is a seasoned sales and business development professional with over 15 years of diverse experience across various industries including sales consulting, real estate and fitness.


Kelly Kennedy

As the founder and president of Elevate X Sales Inc.


Kelly Kennedy

Based in Dallas, Texas, Brian is pioneering the future of sales consulting by integrating AI driven insights with innovative strategies.


Kelly Kennedy

His extensive career journey reflects a commitment to excellence from his role as marketing director at NAI Robert Lin, where he facilitated over 50 commercial transactions, to his impactful tenure at Innovative Recovery RAB Inc.


Kelly Kennedy

And the Waller Group where he drove national growth and sourced multimillion dollar investment opportunities.


Kelly Kennedy

Brian's passion for sales and client success is matched by his dedication to continuous learning and leadership.


Kelly Kennedy

His entrepreneurial spirit led him to establish Elevate X Sales Inc.


Kelly Kennedy

A company dedicated to redefining sales excellence through a holistic client centric approach.


Kelly Kennedy

Whether it's transforming sales teams with cutting edge elearning programs or preparing companies for the future.


Kelly Kennedy

With the upcoming AI sales companion ti, Brian is set in helping businesses achieve unparalleled success and thrive in a competitive landscape.


Kelly Kennedy

Brian, it's an honor to have you join us today.


Brian Hayes

Thank you.


Brian Hayes

That was.


Brian Hayes

That was quite an introduction I was.


Brian Hayes

I couldn't have said it better myself, but you said it way better.


Kelly Kennedy

Well, thank you.


Brian Hayes

Was that chatgpt?


Brian Hayes

That's what that was.


Kelly Kennedy

We do use a little bit of help, but, you know, we love a rock star entrance.


Kelly Kennedy

We really do.


Kelly Kennedy

On the show.


Brian Hayes

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

Thank you.


Brian Hayes

Thank you.


Brian Hayes

No, I love it.


Brian Hayes

I love it.


Brian Hayes

Whoever wrote it, it was great.


Kelly Kennedy

There you go.


Kelly Kennedy

There you go.


Kelly Kennedy

I'm going to take credit.


Brian Hayes

Good.


Brian Hayes

Better.


Kelly Kennedy

Your show, Brian.


Kelly Kennedy

It's an absolute honor to have you on the show.


Kelly Kennedy

You know, we connected on LinkedIn a while ago, and we've kind of been chatting back and forth.


Kelly Kennedy

You know, I've had the pleasure to meet quite a few people from Texas, and, you know, I think I've liked every one of them.


Kelly Kennedy

So it's an honor to have you join us today.


Kelly Kennedy

I'm really looking forward to our convers on sales.


Kelly Kennedy

There's a lot to chat about here and there's a lot of new things.


Kelly Kennedy

And I know we talked kind of before the show, but I said, you know, there's a lot of new sales ideas coming up.


Kelly Kennedy

There's a lot of people getting, like, swamped every day from a whole bunch of people saying they can generate a thousand leads a day or whatever.


Kelly Kennedy

You know what I'm talking about.


Kelly Kennedy

You got.


Kelly Kennedy

Your inbox is full of these things, too.


Brian Hayes

Yes.


Kelly Kennedy

And so I think sales is starting to get this, like, weird place where nobody knows what to trust, especially with the advent of AI especially with the advent of now these virtual assistants that seem to be popping up left, right and center, right.


Kelly Kennedy

So, you know, I want to dive deep into that today, but I want to chat a lot with you.


Kelly Kennedy

You know, you have a very, very broad marketing experience, sales experience, business development experience.


Kelly Kennedy

You've been around the block.


Kelly Kennedy

You know what you're talking about.


Kelly Kennedy

So we're going to, you know, chat.


Kelly Kennedy

And my goal today with this show is really just to help entrepreneurs make good decisions, be able to invest their money safely and in something that is actually going to lead to sales and revenue for their companies because, you know, nobody wants to get screwed, and I don't want anybody to get screwed.


Kelly Kennedy

And if we can help even one company today, you know, we've done our job.


Brian Hayes

Yes, one company.


Brian Hayes

That's.


Brian Hayes

That's our goal today.


Kelly Kennedy

It, you know, it's a really simple, simple metric.


Kelly Kennedy

I feel like.


Kelly Kennedy

I feel like one.


Kelly Kennedy

I'll be happy.


Brian Hayes

Yep, yep.


Brian Hayes

I do that one.


Brian Hayes

Clock out, go home.


Kelly Kennedy

But before we do this, dude, bring us back to the beginning.


Kelly Kennedy

Who is Brian Hayes?


Kelly Kennedy

How did you end up on this journey?


Brian Hayes

Oh my.


Brian Hayes

Well, this journey.


Brian Hayes

Journey has been an interesting journey.


Brian Hayes

I will start off by saying, you know, the, the hard part first, which is I'm actually.


Brian Hayes

My mother was 16 when she had had me and teen pregnancy in Salt Lake City, Utah, a very religious area.


Brian Hayes

I don't know if you're familiar with Salt Lake City, but that's where the Mormons, the LDS Church is.


Brian Hayes

And it was difficult growing up.


Brian Hayes

I was, she was the youngest of four and so I was the oldest.


Brian Hayes

The her children, of course, and I've got one other sister.


Brian Hayes

And it was interesting growing up and kind of being.


Brian Hayes

I was the oddball, honestly.


Brian Hayes

You know, some people say, oh, I was a black sheep.


Brian Hayes

I was this, I was that.


Brian Hayes

No, I was the oddball.


Brian Hayes

You know, no one wanted to be my friend of sorts.


Brian Hayes

You know, I had several friends, but it was just different.


Brian Hayes

I just never fit in.


Brian Hayes

I really didn't feel like I fit in.


Brian Hayes

So when I was a kid, I didn't even like the snow.


Brian Hayes

And I Salt Lake City, Utah snows.


Brian Hayes

And so I knew I had to leave when I could.


Brian Hayes

And then I took the first opportunity, took a job with.


Brian Hayes

And this was 2008 and I had started in home remodeling, construction.


Brian Hayes

And then 2008, housing market and recession happened.


Brian Hayes

So I was like, well, false start, let's try again.


Brian Hayes

And then I transferred over to a smaller distribution company.


Brian Hayes

They sold specialty art supplies to schools, churches, marketing agencies and sold the actual products that they would use.


Brian Hayes

And their biggest customer was in Mexico City.


Brian Hayes

And so they said, brian, we want you to move to Texas.


Brian Hayes

I was like, well, when are we going?


Brian Hayes

Like, I'm ready to go and I've been waiting.


Brian Hayes

And I was 20 at the time.


Brian Hayes

I had a thousand dollars in my bank account and I was like, I packed up everything in my car and I was like, we're going.


Brian Hayes

Like, I have to leave.


Brian Hayes

There's like something's calling me.


Brian Hayes

And they gave me a choice whether I wanted to go to Dallas, Houston, Austin or San Antonio.


Brian Hayes

And at the time, 2008, we had Google Maps, but it wasn't as great as it is now.


Brian Hayes

So it has some street views.


Brian Hayes

And so I actually went through and went through some of the street views and I was like, yes, I like this.


Brian Hayes

And moved here, Drove actually straight away non stop.


Brian Hayes

I was so excited to get here, Worked for the company for a year.


Brian Hayes

And then they closed down.


Brian Hayes

The two owners got in a fight, they closed down.


Brian Hayes

So I'm like in 1400 miles away from home, going, okay, well, I guess I'm staying here because I like it.


Brian Hayes

And I started leasing apartments and that wasn't typically for me, you know, it was in real estate.


Brian Hayes

I knew I always wanted to be in real estate, but that was the first entry and I didn't have a license at the time.


Brian Hayes

Didn't really know what to do and how to get into the industry.


Brian Hayes

So I sold our lease apartments.


Brian Hayes

After I decided that wasn't for me, I went to a company called U.S.


Brian Hayes

trade Finance Corp.


Brian Hayes

And they did consignment sales for heavy construction equipment.


Brian Hayes

That definitely wasn't for me.


Brian Hayes

Just not rough around the edges.


Brian Hayes

And you're speaking to people that are rough around the edges, so they're going to tell you exactly how it is when you're cold.


Brian Hayes

Calling construction guy, he owns a crane or excavator, front end loader.


Brian Hayes

He's going to tell you how it is.


Brian Hayes

He'd be like, get the F off the phone.


Brian Hayes

Like, what are you doing?


Brian Hayes

It's.


Brian Hayes

And so I just.


Brian Hayes

I have thick skin, but, yeah, I don't want to get beat up.


Kelly Kennedy

A little harsh.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah, that's fair.


Brian Hayes

So the owner's wife actually came to me and she said, brian, you need to go somewhere where you can talk to somebody in person all day, every day.


Brian Hayes

I was like, okay.


Brian Hayes

In high school, I was a swimmer, and so I thought, okay, I'll do something athletics.


Brian Hayes

And so I went and sold memberships for Lifetime Fitness.


Brian Hayes

A gym.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah, if you're familiar with Lifetime, we have them here.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

Beautiful, aren't they?


Kelly Kennedy

They are.


Brian Hayes

And sold memberships as I was getting some certifications from the National Academy of Sports Medicine.


Brian Hayes

So I didn't.


Brian Hayes

I obviously skipped over this part, but I didn't attend college.


Brian Hayes

And so this was my formal education of sorts.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

To kind of come with the trade.


Brian Hayes

And once I got my certification, I applied for a personal training job at the location I was at.


Brian Hayes

And they said, no, I don't have any experience.


Brian Hayes

They wanted me to stay in membership sales.


Brian Hayes

So I was like, okay, well, I'm leaving.


Brian Hayes

And I went to 24 Hour Fitness.


Brian Hayes

It's a larger chain at the time.


Brian Hayes

They have more locations.


Brian Hayes

Maybe not now, but worked there for a year.


Brian Hayes

Got four other certifications.


Brian Hayes

Corrective exercise performance enhancement, fitness, nutrition and mixed martial arts conditioning.


Brian Hayes

Trained clients from all walks of life, from attorneys all the way down to single moms and kids in college and just paying with their.


Brian Hayes

There was one client that paid with her student.


Brian Hayes

Student loan card, I think it is.


Kelly Kennedy

Oh, wow.


Brian Hayes

I was like, you sure?


Brian Hayes

And she's like, yes.


Brian Hayes

I was like, okay.


Brian Hayes

It's education.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah, yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

Those student loan cards, man.


Kelly Kennedy

Like, you can't.


Kelly Kennedy

You can't escape that debt.


Brian Hayes

No.


Brian Hayes

And that's what I told her.


Brian Hayes

And I was like, okay, if that's what you want.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

I was honored.


Kelly Kennedy

Oh, to be young and dumb again.


Brian Hayes

There should be money on this card.


Brian Hayes

Golly.


Brian Hayes

But so trained at 24 Hour Fitness.


Brian Hayes

And then I just.


Brian Hayes

I wanted to have a better gym, so I went back to the original gym that I sold memberships for.


Brian Hayes

It's a big, large one.


Brian Hayes

It's a platinum diamond location.


Brian Hayes

And I applied again.


Brian Hayes

They were like, okay, now you have experience.


Brian Hayes

I'm like, oh, now I'm good enough.


Brian Hayes

So trained there.


Brian Hayes

Trained lots of executive C suite.


Brian Hayes

It's next to Toyota's headquarters.


Brian Hayes

So I trained several of the C suites, some Chief Technical Officers, CEOs, doctors, lawyers, entrepreneurs, and really got to have a conversation about business.


Brian Hayes

That was the interesting part, because you.


Brian Hayes

I have to keep them entertained while they're going through pain.


Brian Hayes

So I was the comedian for the hour.


Brian Hayes

But that's where I learned the empathy in sales is you need to see it from their eyes.


Brian Hayes

Like, how would they want to be treated?


Brian Hayes

And so I always treated my clients.


Brian Hayes

You know, every client was different.


Brian Hayes

So I would be different with one than the other.


Brian Hayes

I'd have more jokes for another.


Brian Hayes

I'd have less clean jokes for another.


Brian Hayes

And honed that.


Brian Hayes

Didn't know empathy, you know, that wasn't a word in my vocabulary at the time, but I knew it was like, I'm seeing it from your eyes.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

And that's when I kind of found the superpower.


Brian Hayes

And one of my clients looked at me and said, brian, you're too smart to be counting to 10.


Brian Hayes

And it blew my mind.


Brian Hayes

Changed the whole trajectory of my life.


Brian Hayes

I went to.


Brian Hayes

I started being a private personal trainer and trying to do, you know, some sort of business.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

And it then came to apparent where I needed to figure out how I can make money without having to not train somebody, but having to actually work that hour.


Brian Hayes

So I needed to maximize my time.


Brian Hayes

So I thought, okay, well, where.


Brian Hayes

Where can I go and get some.


Brian Hayes

Something professional?


Brian Hayes

Even without a degree?


Brian Hayes

And real estate has a.


Brian Hayes

Not a low barrier of entry, but you need a license and you can practice, and it has education.


Brian Hayes

So I got my real estate license, and I didn't want to do residential.


Brian Hayes

I wanted to do commercial.


Brian Hayes

I think, you know, when you sell residential, it's more of how you Feel.


Brian Hayes

How does this house make you feel?


Brian Hayes

You see your family here with things different sales process.


Brian Hayes

With commercial, it's more of, here's the numbers, here's what it is.


Brian Hayes

Do you like it?


Brian Hayes

Does it work?


Brian Hayes

Does it make sense for your business future?


Brian Hayes

You know, it's less emotional, it's more logical.


Brian Hayes

Even though I have empathy based sales, I thought that was a good mix.


Kelly Kennedy

Sure.


Brian Hayes

So I worked for a small boutique brokerage firm that did investment sales for multifamily.


Brian Hayes

Was there for less, less than a year.


Brian Hayes

And I was like, I gotta go.


Brian Hayes

Sourced lots of deals, but they just never executed on any of them.


Brian Hayes

And I was like, I'm not gonna see the commission that I want to see.


Brian Hayes

So this is not the commercial I'm thinking of.


Brian Hayes

So I did research and I looked at the top five firms in Dallas, including cbre, JLL and Nai.


Brian Hayes

Robert Lynn is the local firm.


Brian Hayes

And I applied to all of them.


Brian Hayes

They all turned me down.


Brian Hayes

And Nai at least gave me a shot.


Brian Hayes

They, they took a meeting, they took an interview and passed the interview.


Brian Hayes

Then went to the gauntlet, is what I call it.


Brian Hayes

It was six interviews in one day and they were all an hour plus long.


Brian Hayes

And it was just one after the other.


Brian Hayes

Met with CEO, principal, principal, principal, CEO.


Brian Hayes

It was, it was interesting and passed the gauntlet.


Brian Hayes

And after passing the gauntlet, they provided me with.


Brian Hayes

Because you, they give you a market so you've got like a franchise almost.


Brian Hayes

So they give you a market of specialty.


Brian Hayes

And that was the urban market for retail.


Brian Hayes

So I was downtown, uptown, deep Ellum.


Brian Hayes

I don't know if you're familiar with Dallas.


Brian Hayes

It's kind of a trendy restaurant area, party area.


Brian Hayes

That was my market of focus.


Brian Hayes

They were like, dive in.


Brian Hayes

We've never done it.


Brian Hayes

We don't even know what's out there.


Brian Hayes

I had to do research on the market to find out what retail properties were there.


Brian Hayes

And they were like, yeah, that's yours and you're off.


Brian Hayes

And there's no salary.


Brian Hayes

It's 100% commission.


Brian Hayes

There's a draw, but it's 30,000 a year.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

So it doesn't cover.


Brian Hayes

It keeps your covers.


Kelly Kennedy

Nothing.


Kelly Kennedy

No.


Brian Hayes

So for the first, you know, year, it was struggle learning a new market.


Brian Hayes

And it's the most competitive market in Dallas because everyone wants a listing in uptown, in downtown.


Brian Hayes

And so I was competing with a lot of the hot shots.


Brian Hayes

And so when someone says that is that reference 30K Millionaire?


Brian Hayes

Like, I totally get it.


Brian Hayes

Because I had to pretend like I was successful in order to get some of those opportunities, but got several listings.


Brian Hayes

I leased for some several high rise buildings in downtown Dallas and had a Mid America apartments.


Brian Hayes

They're a pretty large ownership group nationally.


Brian Hayes

And this is right before COVID We signed an agreement where we took over the leasing for 10 different properties.


Brian Hayes

And not two weeks later, Covid happened.


Brian Hayes

Completely changed the game.


Brian Hayes

And mine being the urban market, the most dense, the most highly populated, everyone ran away.


Brian Hayes

So nothing.


Brian Hayes

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

So I did zero deals.


Brian Hayes

So I get out of this training program and then go in and here comes Covet.


Brian Hayes

I also had brain surgery that year.


Kelly Kennedy

Oh, wow.


Brian Hayes

During.


Brian Hayes

Yeah, during COVID believe it or not.


Brian Hayes

And crazy experience was benign.


Brian Hayes

So it's fine.


Brian Hayes

I'm fine now.


Brian Hayes

But it was still a rough year.


Brian Hayes

21 was my comeback year.


Brian Hayes

I proposed to my fiance at the top of one of the high rise buildings.


Brian Hayes

I changed the lights on the other high rise building.


Brian Hayes

You know, at the top of the world closing.


Brian Hayes

I started getting pretty close to closing my 50 transactions.


Brian Hayes

I did a few in 2022, but the bulk of them were in that year.


Brian Hayes

So I was just on the top of the world, ready to go.


Brian Hayes

And then 22 happened.


Brian Hayes

And I didn't see the success monetarily that I wanted to.


Brian Hayes

And so I was like, okay, well what else could I do?


Brian Hayes

And there was an opportunity to work with a group called Sonder and they wanted to do office to residential conversions and that is, you know, construction permitting and all of that stuff.


Brian Hayes

So it'd be.


Brian Hayes

Make it a mixed use property where you'd have office, some floors and residential, some floors, hotels, some floors, retail at the bottom.


Brian Hayes

Right.


Brian Hayes

And they wanted me to introduce them to some of the owners in, in those markets because I knew them all.


Brian Hayes

I was calling them and talking with them as I was trying to represent them on the retail on the bottom floor.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

And so was able to make several introductions.


Brian Hayes

We lined up several deals where they would take several hundred contiguous square feet of property of, of the building and do a master lease.


Brian Hayes

And those commissions would have netted me well over a million dollars each of them.


Brian Hayes

And I signed up six.


Kelly Kennedy

Wow.


Kelly Kennedy

Wow.


Brian Hayes

And so I was flying high in 22, ready to go.


Brian Hayes

Interest rates started to change and one by one, each of them fell.


Brian Hayes

And the owners called me and were like, Brian, like we can't pursue this deal.


Brian Hayes

I know you've worked hard on it, but interest rates, it just doesn't pencil out.


Brian Hayes

I'm sorry.


Brian Hayes

One after the other, the end of the year, all of them died.


Brian Hayes

And I'm at The end of the year going, okay, well, I can kill myself or I can continue.


Brian Hayes

So I decided to continue.


Brian Hayes

Oh, man, it was so bad.


Brian Hayes

I mean, it was.


Brian Hayes

When you lose that and you work hard and you tell people and everyone in the office knows what is happening, that you're about to make something great happen.


Brian Hayes

You know, leasing several hundred contiguous square feet and doing something new in a market, the buzz gets around.


Brian Hayes

You know, my nickname was Big Big fees.


Brian Hayes

I love it.


Brian Hayes

I was chasing those big fees.


Brian Hayes

Yeah, yeah.


Brian Hayes

I was not missing big fees.


Brian Hayes

And so it didn't happen.


Brian Hayes

And I was like, look, I gotta go.


Brian Hayes

Like, I have to leave.


Brian Hayes

Like, there's just no way.


Brian Hayes

So I took the first job that was going to give me a salary.


Brian Hayes

I never had a salary.


Brian Hayes

First time in my life.


Brian Hayes

I'm 30 years old.


Brian Hayes

Yeah, 32 or 3 at the time.


Brian Hayes

Never had a salary, took a job.


Brian Hayes

But it was in.


Brian Hayes

It was in debt collection.


Brian Hayes

Very interesting industry.


Brian Hayes

And it was not for me.


Brian Hayes

Not that it's a bad industry.


Brian Hayes

It's just.


Brian Hayes

It's different.


Brian Hayes

You know, when you have a conversation, they're like, oh, yeah, what do you do for a living?


Brian Hayes

Oh, I'm in debt collection.


Brian Hayes

You're like, don't worry, I'm not here for you.


Brian Hayes

Calm down.


Kelly Kennedy

Oh, my goodness.


Brian Hayes

I could definitely see that, you know, So I left that company, went to another one to try to figure out maybe it was just that it was real estate focused.


Brian Hayes

Then it went to business debt collection.


Brian Hayes

I stayed there three months.


Brian Hayes

And the reason I went there is they wanted me to focus on marketing and do different outreach.


Brian Hayes

No, no sales outreach.


Brian Hayes

None of.


Brian Hayes

Nothing like that.


Brian Hayes

And then one day they were like, hey, you want to get on the phone to start cold calling?


Brian Hayes

Like, yeah, I can do that.


Brian Hayes

But it's not really what I signed up for.


Brian Hayes

And they started changing what they wanted me to do.


Brian Hayes

So I was like, okay, I got to leave.


Brian Hayes

So I left, took the commission from my last deal that I did at NI Robert Lynn, and founded Elevate X Sales.


Brian Hayes

Because I was like, well, if I can't find a job, I'm going to make a job.


Brian Hayes

And I want to do something that I feel passionate about.


Brian Hayes

And I know I can sell because it's.


Brian Hayes

So I'm putting my stamp of approval on it.


Brian Hayes

I'm sick of doing it for someone else.


Brian Hayes

Not that it's bad to do that.


Brian Hayes

It's just not what I wanted to do.


Kelly Kennedy

Sure.


Brian Hayes

And it started as an elearning company, Then I switched to making it more focused towards sales Outreach, third party.


Brian Hayes

And now it's going full circle.


Brian Hayes

We're going back to commercial real estate and get back on the saddle, and we're going to do marketing for commercial real estate properties because there's a big gap in the market.


Brian Hayes

They don't do social media, they don't do SEO.


Brian Hayes

They don't understand that.


Brian Hayes

And I want to bring life to commercial real estate and kind of do what residential does where they have guided walkthroughs of the house, some actual character.


Brian Hayes

It's not just, here's the deal.


Brian Hayes

It's, yeah, well, here's the deal.


Brian Hayes

And it's all dressed up and nice, and this is how we could look for your business, interviewing tenants, things that nature so long winded, but lots unpacked there.


Brian Hayes

But I'm excited to continue to pursue forward with my sales career with Elevate X Sales.


Brian Hayes

And thank you for having me.


Kelly Kennedy

No, no.


Kelly Kennedy

Amazing.


Kelly Kennedy

Amazing.


Kelly Kennedy

Man, I can't imagine, like, I was listening to your story where you're talking about, like, you know, the losses of those deals, one after one.


Kelly Kennedy

And, you know, I mean, at that point, you've probably already, like, forecast your future, what you're gonna do with that money, what life is gonna be like.


Kelly Kennedy

You know, things are gonna.


Kelly Kennedy

It's gonna be that boost that you need for your new marriage, dude.


Kelly Kennedy

Like, oh, I can't.


Kelly Kennedy

You know, I mean, I've had people come on this show who lost their business, lost their investments, everything.


Kelly Kennedy

And I always have to ask when I hear a story like that, dude, how did you come back?


Kelly Kennedy

What did you tell yourself in that moment?


Kelly Kennedy

Because I, you know, I mean, I had that conversation with a gentleman who lost, you know, a few million dollars and literally lost his business, lost his investments, lost everything, and then clawed back, became successful again.


Brian Hayes

Yeah, but.


Brian Hayes

But I always, like.


Kelly Kennedy

And that's the cool story here.


Kelly Kennedy

The cool story here is that a lot of the people I've talked to that had that happen, that is exactly what happened.


Kelly Kennedy

They clawed back and they came back because they had the knowledge on how to do it again.


Brian Hayes

Yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

But I do have to ask you, you know, just as a human to another human, that must.


Kelly Kennedy

First off, that must have been absolutely horrible, and I'm sorry that that happened to you.


Brian Hayes

Thanks.


Kelly Kennedy

And second off, how were you able to motivate yourself and frankly, keep your mental health?


Kelly Kennedy

Okay.


Kelly Kennedy

Because I can imagine losing by the time you lost that sixth deal, and you're just like, like, why, that building's pretty tall.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah, no, I know.


Kelly Kennedy

I can imagine.


Kelly Kennedy

I can imagine.


Kelly Kennedy

Talk to me about that moment.


Brian Hayes

So it really was one thing, and it's my fiance.


Brian Hayes

I didn't want to impact her because I knew how it would make her feel.


Brian Hayes

So empathy is very strong with me.


Brian Hayes

And I put myself in her shoes and I was like, okay, if I kill myself, what is it?


Brian Hayes

How is that going to affect her?


Brian Hayes

And I kind of foresaw her life.


Brian Hayes

Not that I know what she would do, but just my thought of it and I was like, that's not how I want her to live.


Brian Hayes

And I had to literally decide.


Brian Hayes

You have to decide.


Brian Hayes

It's either you're going to do it or you're not going to do it.


Brian Hayes

And I was like, I'm not going to do it.


Brian Hayes

And I'm going to find a way.


Brian Hayes

I'm going to, you know, come lick my wounds, go work at a debt collection agency, chill out for a minute and kind of figure it out.


Brian Hayes

I thought, you know, I just needed a job and I thought that I would just work there for the rest of my life.


Brian Hayes

And then eight months later, I'm like, no, like, that's not me.


Brian Hayes

So you have to figure out who you are.


Brian Hayes

And it takes time.


Brian Hayes

But the initial knee jerk reaction of, well, I'm just going to go and off it.


Brian Hayes

You just have to decide you're not going to.


Brian Hayes

Because I wanted to see how the story ended.


Brian Hayes

I didn't want it to end like that.


Brian Hayes

That was the big thing, honestly.


Brian Hayes

That's interesting.


Brian Hayes

Nerv said that out loud.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

And thank you for that.


Kelly Kennedy

Thank you for being so candid.


Kelly Kennedy

Because I can imagine, I don't know how you felt in that moment.


Kelly Kennedy

What I can say is I can imagine what that must be like.


Kelly Kennedy

And it's not your fault.


Kelly Kennedy

And I think that that's like the worst part about the whole thing.


Kelly Kennedy

There's like, there's nothing.


Kelly Kennedy

There are just circumstances sometimes, Right.


Kelly Kennedy

Like Covid is a perfect example.


Kelly Kennedy

There are circumstances that are completely out of your control.


Kelly Kennedy

That no matter how amazing you are, no matter how great of an entrepreneur, how great of an idea, how great of a business person, how great of a salesperson, business development, you name it, it doesn't matter.


Kelly Kennedy

Because it's not about you.


Kelly Kennedy

It's a circumstance outside of your control.


Kelly Kennedy

And I think as high performance individuals, like, I know you are, I know I am.


Kelly Kennedy

I know a lot of my, my peers are.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah, we can, we can internalize that and say, it's our fault.


Kelly Kennedy

We did it.


Kelly Kennedy

We could have done something different and done it different.


Kelly Kennedy

Like, it's Funny, because it's really a high performance.


Kelly Kennedy

I just did a show, you know, on, on specifically on imposter syndrome.


Kelly Kennedy

And imposter syndrome happens to 70% of people on earth and typically it actually happens to the highest performing individuals.


Kelly Kennedy

Most of the time it's high performance individuals who experience imposter syndrome.


Kelly Kennedy

It's not, it's not typically the people who just start in a position.


Kelly Kennedy

It's usually people who already know exactly what they're doing and are taking that next big step that feel like the biggest frauds and imposters.


Kelly Kennedy

So it really is a challenge for high performance individuals.


Brian Hayes

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

And it's funny, you, you know, mental health, I mean, we're, we just exited May.


Brian Hayes

I think that's Mental health month.


Brian Hayes

That is a big thing.


Brian Hayes

And I think just the message that I want to get across to everyone, if you, if you're struggling with something like that, it's best to tell someone and look for help.


Brian Hayes

But you also have to look for your own help for yourself.


Brian Hayes

Like, you have to internalize it and go, okay, you've got two choices.


Brian Hayes

Choose.


Brian Hayes

And choose well, because the story doesn't have to end that way.


Brian Hayes

That's really what it was.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah, yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

And you know, like, what were some of the techniques you used?


Kelly Kennedy

Obviously you came from, you know, a fitness background.


Kelly Kennedy

What were some of the stress relieving techniques that you, that you utilized in that time to try to build yourself back?


Brian Hayes

David Goggins is a man that I will, I look forward to meeting him.


Brian Hayes

He got me out of a very dark place.


Brian Hayes

He has some content that he posts on YouTube and not a lot of people know this, but I would.


Brian Hayes

I have a little headset here that I put on.


Brian Hayes

I downloaded just all of his motivational content, put it in my head and just listen to that on repeat.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

Over and over and over and over and over again until I can motivate myself again.


Brian Hayes

Because I was a trainer, I used to motivate people and that was the hardest thing.


Brian Hayes

When you're so low, you're like, you don't realize who you are.


Brian Hayes

Like, you almost forget and you have to remind yourself who you are, what you've done, how you've overcome stuff.


Brian Hayes

So you have to find something to kind of grease the wheels.


Brian Hayes

And David Goggins was a great example of overcoming adversity and having that mindset of it's possible.


Brian Hayes

Like, what if instead of, you know, well, that happened?


Brian Hayes

That was sad.


Brian Hayes

It's like, well, what if it changes?


Brian Hayes

How beautiful is that story going to be?


Brian Hayes

Yeah, it's going to be much better.


Brian Hayes

So it's like, what if?


Brian Hayes

That's what I always think.


Brian Hayes

And I think that's a really good thing in business.


Brian Hayes

It's like, what if I do this business venture and it fails, but what if it doesn't?


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

So you want to try and remain as positive as you can, as cliche as that sounds.


Brian Hayes

But you just want to really find out what's going to get you out of the muck.


Brian Hayes

And that's what did on repeat in the shower.


Brian Hayes

I would reap.


Brian Hayes

I can.


Brian Hayes

There's some of his motivational content that's 30 minutes long.


Brian Hayes

I could say it word for word.


Kelly Kennedy

Wow.


Brian Hayes

Yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

Wow.


Brian Hayes

That's how much he was listening to it.


Brian Hayes

That was the only way.


Brian Hayes

It was the only thing I could think of.


Brian Hayes

It was like, I need to find someone motivating me.


Kelly Kennedy

Amazing, amazing dude.


Kelly Kennedy

And, you know, I relate to that so much.


Kelly Kennedy

And what I always kind of recommend to people that are stuck, like, if you're feeling like your business is stagnant, you're stagnant, you're struggling with motivation.


Kelly Kennedy

I always recommend people to listen to, like a new audio book.


Kelly Kennedy

Right.


Kelly Kennedy

Just something to kind of take them out of their frame of mind or their way of thinking and think just a little bit differently.


Kelly Kennedy

Because most of the solutions, they're not.


Kelly Kennedy

They're not 100 miles away.


Kelly Kennedy

They're most of the time one or two books away.


Brian Hayes

Yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

And, you know, it's no different than that inspiring motivational content from David Goggins.


Kelly Kennedy

Right.


Kelly Kennedy

Like, it's the same idea.


Kelly Kennedy

It's like there is help out there.


Kelly Kennedy

It's usually not that far away.


Kelly Kennedy

And I find myself where I get into a pickle, where I'm just like, I need to.


Kelly Kennedy

I need to think differently.


Kelly Kennedy

I need a new idea.


Kelly Kennedy

And when I have that moment, that's when I'm looking for a new book or some.


Kelly Kennedy

Some type of content to just give me a slightly different direction or frame of mind that I didn't have before.


Kelly Kennedy

Because most of the time the good idea, it's not far away.


Kelly Kennedy

It's right there.


Brian Hayes

Yeah, it is.


Brian Hayes

And you just have to reach out and use the tools that you have.


Brian Hayes

So that's really what Elevate X Sales was built on, is just, well, I could only think of a few things that I could bring to the world that's a value and that's my experience and what I've done and what I could do.


Brian Hayes

Not so much what I've done.


Brian Hayes

It's what I could do if given the opportunity.


Brian Hayes

And so you just have to create the environment for your opportunity is really what it is.


Kelly Kennedy

Totally, Totally.


Kelly Kennedy

Man.


Kelly Kennedy

This took a different direction than thought it was going to go.


Kelly Kennedy

That's the funny thing, right?


Kelly Kennedy

Like, people think that these podcasts are just, like, completely scripted and we know.


Kelly Kennedy

But no, not at all.


Kelly Kennedy

Like, I am surprised more often than not at the direction that their show goes.


Kelly Kennedy

It's most of the time quite a bit different than the initial plan that I had.


Kelly Kennedy

But, dude, I am so.


Kelly Kennedy

I'm so thankful that you joined me today and that you were so vulnerable.


Kelly Kennedy

I think it's so.


Kelly Kennedy

And first off, you know, just let me say, like, I'm terribly sorry that that happened to you.


Kelly Kennedy

I am happy that you are still with us.


Kelly Kennedy

I'm happy that you're here on the show with me today, sharing your knowledge, helping the world.


Kelly Kennedy

You know, the world needs more help.


Kelly Kennedy

Business people need to be more helpful.


Kelly Kennedy

We're all in it together.


Kelly Kennedy

It's not a competition.


Kelly Kennedy

We're all in it together.


Kelly Kennedy

It's a big world.


Brian Hayes

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

Oh, yes.


Brian Hayes

Oh, yes.


Brian Hayes

You're in Canada.


Brian Hayes

I'm in Dallas, Texas.


Brian Hayes

I was speaking to someone from Croatia earlier today.


Brian Hayes

You know, I have.


Brian Hayes

Someone just messaged me.


Brian Hayes

It's why you probably heard ding or something.


Brian Hayes

It was India.


Brian Hayes

I'm like this ever since I got out of my little circle and I looked out for other ideas and other avenues and other possibilities.


Brian Hayes

That's really what it is.


Brian Hayes

Like you said, look for.


Brian Hayes

It's just one.


Brian Hayes

Find a way.


Brian Hayes

You just have to not put yourself out there, but try to do something different.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

I could have never.


Kelly Kennedy

You know, I mean, and this is like a really good example.


Kelly Kennedy

When I started this show, I started it in my basement talking to Bob's basement, thinking, like, oh, my gosh.


Kelly Kennedy

Like, who's going to listen to my business development show?


Kelly Kennedy

Right?


Kelly Kennedy

We got great knowledge.


Kelly Kennedy

I know what I'm talking about.


Kelly Kennedy

But, like, who in the world is going to listen to this dude?


Kelly Kennedy

Over 130 countries so far listen to this show.


Brian Hayes

I know.


Brian Hayes

Thanks for reminding me.


Brian Hayes

So I'm nervous again.


Kelly Kennedy

It's absolutely bonkers.


Kelly Kennedy

It, like, blows my mind sometimes.


Kelly Kennedy

The impact of the Internet age.


Kelly Kennedy

The impact and reach that some good advice, some helpful people can have on the world.


Kelly Kennedy

You know, I never thought we're so similar, too.


Brian Hayes

It's so weird.


Brian Hayes

I didn't know that.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

Like, that we're like, dude, we're all just trying to make it, like, we're all just trying to be good people.


Brian Hayes

And win win scenarios.


Brian Hayes

And I mean not everyone, but most of them, most of the people here are just like, hey, help me help you.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah, yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

I got a, I got a message from Australia this week actually and gentlemen reached out.


Kelly Kennedy

Super kind was like, dude, like I'm, you know, I was working in business, like in, in his industry for quite some time and then he ended up in a business development role.


Kelly Kennedy

And just like, thank God you put out this information because there was just nothing out there specific to business development people, right?


Kelly Kennedy

And it's like the whole reason I started this show was when I, when I started my business development career because I always say business development chooses you.


Kelly Kennedy

Nobody goes to school thinking they're going to end up in business development.


Kelly Kennedy

You get chosen.


Kelly Kennedy

It's.


Kelly Kennedy

I, I'm gonna, it's like a badge of honor.


Kelly Kennedy

But I always say like, I, I had to learn, I had to learn everything on my own scramble, put together my own procedures, my own process.


Kelly Kennedy

Just like you have done with Elevate X.


Kelly Kennedy

Like, there's not a lot of help out there.


Kelly Kennedy

And so my goal was really like, we need to stop safeguarding this information.


Kelly Kennedy

If you have something that works, share it with the world.


Kelly Kennedy

Because how many companies fail simply because they didn't know how to market or sell their products?


Brian Hayes

And how much cooler we would be if we all lift each other up instead of like, oh, you're trying to do a business that's gonna fail, you know, instead of doubting.


Brian Hayes

But that brings up a really good point, is the information is not locked, locked up tight anymore.


Brian Hayes

You know, and that comes with AI and the interesting thing that that's brought to the industry.


Brian Hayes

So I know you wanted to talk a little bit about that as well.


Kelly Kennedy

Absolutely.


Brian Hayes

Interesting how the information is not locked up tight in the universities anymore.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah, yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

Well, let's just get into it.


Kelly Kennedy

You know, one of the things that you're working on is called ti what is ti?


Brian Hayes

Ty is a sales companion that I'm in the process of getting developed.


Brian Hayes

It's a, it's taken longer than I thought and it's quite expensive, so that's why it's taking a little longer.


Brian Hayes

But Sales companion.


Brian Hayes

Think of it as your Jiminy Cricket, you know, your little guy on your shoulder, kind of your conscience and he's, you know, prompting you, telling you, hey, this has happened.


Brian Hayes

You should try this.


Brian Hayes

So if you go to a virtual meeting and they say, no, I don't want your product because X or I don't want your product because the price point, it'll actually flash on your screen a prompt saying, try this.


Brian Hayes

So it's kind of coaching you.


Brian Hayes

Live action.


Brian Hayes

It's grading you.


Brian Hayes

It's not only is it watching what you're doing, but it'll be watching the client.


Brian Hayes

So if they kind of sit back, it could say something like, oh, get more engaged because they, they need to lean forward and lean in.


Brian Hayes

So body language and gestures are very important in sales.


Brian Hayes

Very important.


Brian Hayes

Like you need to be able to read the room and some people can't.


Brian Hayes

And it's really hard to learn that.


Brian Hayes

So it's really was developed because.


Brian Hayes

Or it's going to be developed because that's what I would like.


Brian Hayes

You know, as a salesperson, it was hard to practice your sales.


Brian Hayes

The only way to practice was to do it.


Brian Hayes

Call and burn leads.


Brian Hayes

Like, you could totally mess up and then never be able to call that person again because they'll be like, oh, you're that guy, that girl, that person.


Brian Hayes

So it allows you to role play, but it'll take from your previous interactions with clients and say, hey, we need to work on this.


Brian Hayes

Hey, we need to work on that.


Brian Hayes

So as a true companion.


Brian Hayes

And it's kind of like the note takers where you invite them to the, to the zoom meeting where it'll take the notes, but instead of taking notes, it's doing different things.


Kelly Kennedy

Wow, dude, that's actually really cool.


Kelly Kennedy

Like, really cool.


Brian Hayes

Thank you.


Kelly Kennedy

That's a great idea.


Brian Hayes

Thank you.


Kelly Kennedy

I've never.


Kelly Kennedy

I wasn't sure what it was before we had this conversation, but that's.


Kelly Kennedy

That is actually super, super useful.


Kelly Kennedy

Because some of the challenges that we see with our clients at Capital when we have meetings is simply that it's.


Kelly Kennedy

We.


Kelly Kennedy

We tend to attend the meetings with them to help take it to the next level.


Kelly Kennedy

Because like you said, a lot of them struggle with that meeting dynamic.


Kelly Kennedy

They're not really sure when to say what they need to say or how to ask for next steps or when to get more engaged.


Kelly Kennedy

Right.


Kelly Kennedy

So a little prompt like that sounds really, really useful, especially for a lot of these business owners doing their own sales.


Brian Hayes

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

And it's not.


Brian Hayes

It's the companion part I think is the most important.


Brian Hayes

Like you were saying, it's, we need someone there because your sales manager or the business owner can't be at every single meeting or he has other things he needs to attend to.


Brian Hayes

So it'll allow for him to know that, hey, it's being taken care of and I'll get a report later that they're all great.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah, yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

No, that's.


Kelly Kennedy

I can.


Kelly Kennedy

I can see this two ways.


Kelly Kennedy

I can already see some salespeople being like, oh, shit, they're gonna send a report on how good I handled each meeting.


Brian Hayes

Yep.


Brian Hayes

And then there's some like, oh, no, they're recording it.


Brian Hayes

You don't want to record my meetings.


Brian Hayes

Yeah, yeah.


Brian Hayes

Well, yeah.


Brian Hayes

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

You're different when the camera's on and it's being recorded.


Brian Hayes

Like, you act different.


Brian Hayes

It's just like putting on a suit.


Brian Hayes

You're like, we're gonna get a sale today.


Brian Hayes

You know, it's like we're watching time to perform.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

And.


Kelly Kennedy

Oh, man.


Kelly Kennedy

And, you know, we can talk about that because I think that business development and sales, like, we live in a time when everybody's saying, like, we need to be more authentic.


Kelly Kennedy

I actually completely agree with this.


Kelly Kennedy

I think we need to be more authentic.


Kelly Kennedy

We need to be more recognizing of people and when they're not doing okay.


Kelly Kennedy

Right.


Kelly Kennedy

But I faked a lot of meetings when I was feeling very, very shitty about whatever my current situation was.


Kelly Kennedy

But I had to put on a brave face, put on the act, and be Kelly.


Kelly Kennedy

Kelly Kennedy, the awesome business development guy who's super fun.


Kelly Kennedy

I had to be that guy, even though I was not feeling congruent with that.


Kelly Kennedy

And my advice now to business development people is when you're having an off day, don't be afraid to kind of say it.


Kelly Kennedy

Don't be afraid to reschedule those meetings.


Kelly Kennedy

Like, I'm.


Kelly Kennedy

I'm of the opinion now that that was probably the wrong way to handle that situation.


Kelly Kennedy

But at the time, I needed my paycheck, I needed to move forward, and I just put on the brave face and did it.


Kelly Kennedy

But my gosh, dude, I've done a lot of meetings, feeling like a pile of crap inside.


Brian Hayes

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

And there's.


Brian Hayes

I do the very same thing.


Brian Hayes

I never made a decision to do it.


Brian Hayes

I just started doing it.


Brian Hayes

You know, having your own company, you can kind of do that.


Brian Hayes

You're the own.


Brian Hayes

You're the boss, so I think he'll forgive you.


Brian Hayes

But I would reschedule.


Brian Hayes

And they're like, oh, you know what?


Brian Hayes

I'm actually feeling bad too.


Brian Hayes

Like, what's going on?


Brian Hayes

And then we get into a relationship building conversation because we have something in common.


Brian Hayes

Like, we both had a bad day.


Brian Hayes

It's just odd timing.


Brian Hayes

And then they become client, you know?


Brian Hayes

So you never want to know.


Brian Hayes

You never know how someone wants to purchase, and you never know how someone's going to connect with you.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

Yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

And I Think we've just spent so long pretending we're just.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah, yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

I love it.


Kelly Kennedy

There is something really special about this time that we're heading into.


Kelly Kennedy

I'm going to call it the post Covid era, because really, that's what.


Kelly Kennedy

That's what seemed to have changed at all.


Brian Hayes

Yep, absolutely.


Kelly Kennedy

There is something about being real and authentic.


Kelly Kennedy

And I just want to say, actually, I've watched a lot of your videos on LinkedIn.


Brian Hayes

Yeah, thanks.


Kelly Kennedy

You do a really great job of just being Brian Hayes showing up.


Kelly Kennedy

And, you know, I imagine, too, that that's probably a post Covid thing, because we're all kind of playing with this.


Kelly Kennedy

How can we be more human in the world on the Internet?


Kelly Kennedy

Right.


Kelly Kennedy

Instead of just being, you know, a business development person or a salesperson.


Kelly Kennedy

Right.


Kelly Kennedy

Like, there's people.


Kelly Kennedy

There's people behind those titles.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah, we care.


Kelly Kennedy

We want to know who they are.


Kelly Kennedy

Right.


Brian Hayes

Yes.


Kelly Kennedy

And I just want to say you're doing a great job with your social stuff.


Kelly Kennedy

You want to maybe chat a little bit about how you.


Kelly Kennedy

How you approach your social media.


Brian Hayes

You know, I want to say that there's a plan, but it's really, there's.


Brian Hayes

I'm just looking for something that I think is going to resonate with others that show what I'm trying to do.


Brian Hayes

So I'm.


Brian Hayes

I'm not trying to show off.


Brian Hayes

I'm just trying to show progress.


Brian Hayes

I'm trying to show movement.


Brian Hayes

I'm trying to show, hey, I'm doing something.


Brian Hayes

You know, it's almost like that's my boss is my clients or potential clients, that's your boss.


Brian Hayes

So you got to show them that you're moving, that you're doing something.


Brian Hayes

You're not just stagnant and doing nothing.


Brian Hayes

And, you know, when I look at someone's LinkedIn and they haven't posted, like, for months, it's not that I think bad about them.


Brian Hayes

I just think, man, you could do more.


Brian Hayes

Yeah, there's a little bit more than you could do, you know, like, provide something.


Brian Hayes

So I'm just trying to put as much information out there that about myself and what I'm doing to show that to prospective clients.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

So there's no run or reason.


Brian Hayes

I mean, there's like, I want to celebrate holidays, I want to celebrate things.


Brian Hayes

But this whole podcast thing, this is all new.


Brian Hayes

I have 12 of them lined up.


Kelly Kennedy

Wow.


Brian Hayes

Yeah, I was surprised about that, too.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

You're number four.


Kelly Kennedy

Okay.


Kelly Kennedy

Amazing.


Kelly Kennedy

I love to be near the beginning.


Brian Hayes

I wish you were number one, but I got some Practice out of the way.


Brian Hayes

How about that?


Brian Hayes

Yeah, yeah, but it's.


Brian Hayes

There's no rhyme or reason.


Brian Hayes

I'm just trying to show movement.


Brian Hayes

And I think that's what we have to do in sales is you just have to show, hey, I'm doing something.


Brian Hayes

Because you're showing investment time and energy and focus.


Kelly Kennedy

You're also putting yourself out there, right?


Kelly Kennedy

And I think that that is currency in 2024 and beyond.


Kelly Kennedy

There's something that happened.


Kelly Kennedy

I don't know when it happened.


Kelly Kennedy

I wanna say, like 2023.


Kelly Kennedy

I like to say that.


Kelly Kennedy

Cause that's when I started this show.


Kelly Kennedy

But I feel like a switch flipped, right?


Kelly Kennedy

And it was like, look, you know companies, it's time to stop hiding behind your companies.


Kelly Kennedy

People wanna know the owners of companies.


Kelly Kennedy

They wanna know the CEOs, the executives, what they're doing, why they care, why what they're doing matters, how they're helping the world.


Kelly Kennedy

And they don't just wanna hear about it.


Kelly Kennedy

They wanna see you.


Kelly Kennedy

And so it really is like getting out there and being front and center and basically taking ownership of who you are and sharing that with the world is currency.


Kelly Kennedy

It really is.


Kelly Kennedy

It's a currency in 2024.


Kelly Kennedy

And so I'm always kind of recommending people.


Kelly Kennedy

I know it's scary.


Kelly Kennedy

Like, take it from me, dude, we talked about this before the show.


Kelly Kennedy

You were nervous and I was telling you, dude, I still get nervous.


Kelly Kennedy

There's still plenty of times where I get nervous crap.


Kelly Kennedy

Like, but.


Kelly Kennedy

But it goes away, right?


Kelly Kennedy

Like, I've interviewed people that scared the bejesus out of me.


Kelly Kennedy

But within two minutes of that interview, I was feeling great.


Kelly Kennedy

I was feeling fine.


Kelly Kennedy

They were feeling fine.


Kelly Kennedy

And you realize that it passes, right?


Kelly Kennedy

Like, that fear, that, like fear you have, it's like it's.


Kelly Kennedy

It's animal in nature.


Kelly Kennedy

It really is.


Kelly Kennedy

It, like, probably goes back to our caveman days.


Kelly Kennedy

We're running from saber tooth tigers, right?


Kelly Kennedy

But we're not running from saber tooth tigers anymore, right?


Kelly Kennedy

Like, nothing in business is going to kill you, right?


Kelly Kennedy

Like a bad phone call ain't going to kill you.


Kelly Kennedy

A bad meeting ain't going to kill you.


Kelly Kennedy

A speech ain't going to kill you, but we still internalize it.


Kelly Kennedy

Like it's going to kill us and we get afraid.


Kelly Kennedy

But what I've found, and, you know, don't get me wrong, like, I still have plenty of scary moments.


Kelly Kennedy

I've had plenty of meetings where I get anxiety.


Kelly Kennedy

And I'm probably in that for a minute or two at least in that time.


Kelly Kennedy

But in my experience, it always passes.


Kelly Kennedy

And maybe I'll find the day it doesn't.


Kelly Kennedy

But I haven't found that day yet.


Brian Hayes

Like, oh, it hasn't left.


Brian Hayes

I'm still.


Brian Hayes

Butterflies are still there.


Kelly Kennedy

It's been three days.


Brian Hayes

I'll let you know and then go away.


Brian Hayes

No, that's right.


Kelly Kennedy

But you mean I'm always here encouraging people to just take the jump.


Brian Hayes

Well, we don't want to be judged.


Brian Hayes

We don't want to be judged.


Brian Hayes

And we.


Brian Hayes

And if we are judged, we want to be judged.


Brian Hayes

Well, and that's the hard part is.


Brian Hayes

And I tell this to.


Brian Hayes

I have a young man working with me.


Brian Hayes

His name's Linus Mueller out of Switzerland.


Brian Hayes

It was so crazy, so much fun.


Brian Hayes

I always tell him, don't put your words in their mouth.


Brian Hayes

Don't take their.


Brian Hayes

Your perspective and assume that's their perspective.


Brian Hayes

So don't assume anything.


Brian Hayes

Manage your expectations.


Brian Hayes

Understand that there could be another possibility.


Brian Hayes

Like, what if they're judging me?


Brian Hayes

Well, what if it's good?


Kelly Kennedy

Sure.


Brian Hayes

So it's just that.


Kelly Kennedy

Well, and I think we're our biggest judges.


Brian Hayes

Yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

Like, I'm judging me all the time.


Kelly Kennedy

Right.


Kelly Kennedy

Like, oh, I've.


Kelly Kennedy

I've had plenty of shows where I listen to it.


Kelly Kennedy

Like, I'll tell you straight up, episode three of the business development podcast.


Kelly Kennedy

I didn't want to release it.


Kelly Kennedy

I didn't want to release it.


Kelly Kennedy

I didn't like the show.


Kelly Kennedy

Nobody noticed.


Kelly Kennedy

Nobody noticed.


Kelly Kennedy

I made mistakes.


Kelly Kennedy

Whatever else, nobody noticed anything.


Kelly Kennedy

I have no fear now saying, like, if you guys want to hear the episode that I hated, it was episode.


Kelly Kennedy

There was really nothing wrong with it.


Kelly Kennedy

I was judging myself.


Kelly Kennedy

And I like.


Kelly Kennedy

And we all do it.


Kelly Kennedy

We all do it.


Kelly Kennedy

But, like, what I'm kind of getting at here is I released episode three anyway.


Kelly Kennedy

Never got one negative comment from.


Brian Hayes

Isn't that funny?


Brian Hayes

Right?


Brian Hayes

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

I always say, don't put your perspective in their mouth.


Brian Hayes

And that's a big thing when you're in sales, because you're going to think, oh, they probably don't like my product, or, oh, maybe the price is too high and they're not going to like the price.


Brian Hayes

And so you're going to deliver it with that in mind.


Brian Hayes

People vibe on that.


Brian Hayes

Like, yeah, like, even though we're states and miles apart, like, I got you.


Brian Hayes

I can hear your wavelength.


Brian Hayes

And so people will pick up on that how you register.


Brian Hayes

And this is our price, you know, so they're gonna.


Brian Hayes

They're gonna push back on that totally.


Brian Hayes

So you just don't.


Brian Hayes

Don't put your perspective out there.


Brian Hayes

The negative ones, you know well, and.


Kelly Kennedy

What you kind of touched on right there in.


Kelly Kennedy

In literally the way that you said, this is our price.


Kelly Kennedy

There was a massive lack of confidence.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah, a massive lack of confidence.


Kelly Kennedy

And I will tell you the difference between closing that deal is saying this is our price versus this is our price.


Brian Hayes

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

This is.


Kelly Kennedy

Like you said, body language.


Kelly Kennedy

Right?


Kelly Kennedy

Body language.


Kelly Kennedy

The way you say things really matters.


Kelly Kennedy

It was funny.


Kelly Kennedy

I was actually coaching a guy not that long ago and he's like, I'm sending so many of these emails.


Kelly Kennedy

I'm making all these phone calls.


Kelly Kennedy

I said, you know, from the email, it kind of sounds okay, but there's a couple things you're saying here that aren't conveying your confidence.


Kelly Kennedy

It's coming across with an unsureness and talking to him on the phone and he kind of went through the pitch with me and literally the correction was so minor, but it was primarily to do with the way that he sounded on the phone.


Kelly Kennedy

I really need you to come through confident in your product and service.


Kelly Kennedy

Like it's something they actually want.


Kelly Kennedy

Like they're really going to want to meet with you.


Kelly Kennedy

And even in the email, it was like, I need you to stop asking them and let them know that you're available at these times.


Brian Hayes

Next time.


Kelly Kennedy

You'd love to meet with me.


Brian Hayes

Yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

Right.


Brian Hayes

Rule number one, everyone has.


Kelly Kennedy

So stupid.


Kelly Kennedy

It's dumb because you look at those two things and you think, well, yeah, but honestly, it's the small intricacies that are hanging you up.


Kelly Kennedy

It's probably.


Kelly Kennedy

It's probably something pretty minor.


Brian Hayes

Yes, yes.


Brian Hayes

And that's the hardest part is to pick it out and kind of going back to what we were saying before.


Brian Hayes

Look for help, ask people for help.


Brian Hayes

I had to go outside of my home state, Dallas, Texas or my.


Brian Hayes

My home town.


Brian Hayes

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

Out of the town I live in to find help for elevate X sales.


Brian Hayes

Because the.


Brian Hayes

My network, that's your net worth.


Brian Hayes

Not that they wouldn't help me.


Brian Hayes

They all said, don't do it.


Brian Hayes

Go back and get a job.


Brian Hayes

Like, you already tried, man.


Brian Hayes

You didn't get it.


Brian Hayes

It's okay.


Brian Hayes

Just be a normal guy.


Brian Hayes

Go work a job and do your thing.


Brian Hayes

And I had to look outside of country to find help.


Brian Hayes

And that's just the craziest part.


Brian Hayes

So you just have to look for.


Brian Hayes

Look for a tool and then put it together.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah, yeah, yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

No, it really is.


Kelly Kennedy

And you know, you touched on something that to me seems very, like, obvious, but is really not Obvious.


Kelly Kennedy

Can you maybe elaborate?


Kelly Kennedy

You talked about empathy.


Kelly Kennedy

That's something that is like one of your key traits, empathy in sales.


Kelly Kennedy

You hear a lot about people being empathetic.


Kelly Kennedy

Empathetic or being.


Kelly Kennedy

What is it?


Kelly Kennedy

Emotionally intelligent is the other word.


Kelly Kennedy

But can we maybe go into depth about how companies can better utilize empathy in their sales process?


Brian Hayes

Empathy, if you don't know what empathy is, is.


Brian Hayes

You're.


Brian Hayes

You're looking outside their eyes and experiencing their life.


Brian Hayes

Not with your knowledge, not with your opinions.


Brian Hayes

You need to get to know who they are and pretend for a moment that you were them.


Brian Hayes

And how would they want to be treated if.


Brian Hayes

Or how would you want to be treated if you were in their shoes?


Brian Hayes

And that is the hardest part because we put our opinions in there.


Brian Hayes

And I'm like, no, no.


Brian Hayes

No opinions, no knowledge.


Brian Hayes

You are that person.


Brian Hayes

How would you feel?


Brian Hayes

And I think that companies can really benefit from this, especially when they do mass layoffs.


Brian Hayes

Like, come on, like, I know you want to save some money, but is there another way?


Brian Hayes

And there probably is, and maybe there isn't, you know, so you have to make that understanding of, well, how would it feel if I got fired?


Brian Hayes

If I was in their shoes with their life, with their kids, with their responsibilities, not my own responsibility.


Brian Hayes

And I think people, in order to really do empathy, you have to drop what you have and pretend that you're them.


Brian Hayes

And that's hard.


Kelly Kennedy

It is.


Brian Hayes

And I had to do that as a personal trainer.


Brian Hayes

I had to really do that.


Brian Hayes

And that was the only way I learned empathy.


Brian Hayes

And how to do it was, you know, envisioning if I was that person doing that exercise, that movement, how would that make me feel if I was self conscious about being in the gym?


Brian Hayes

Because I know that person.


Brian Hayes

That's what that person told me.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

So, like, why would I put them in that obvious of a uncomfortable situation?


Brian Hayes

Yeah, it's something you gotta practice.


Brian Hayes

It's a perspective in life that's really tough.


Brian Hayes

My poor fiance is like, why don't you do empathy with me?


Brian Hayes

I was like, honey, I already know what you're saying.


Brian Hayes

Like, quiet down.


Brian Hayes

But it's something you need to continue to practice and, like, think about, like, how would it really be to be them.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

Not me, them.


Kelly Kennedy

And I think you have to ask.


Kelly Kennedy

Right?


Kelly Kennedy

I think the other side of it is, like you said, you can't think like Kelly Kennedy and I can't think like Brian Hayes because I don't live in your mind every day.


Kelly Kennedy

I don't live in your world or your experience.


Kelly Kennedy

And so my advice, and I don't know how you feel about this, might simply be to ask.


Kelly Kennedy

If you have questions about how they feel about something, don't be afraid to ask because like you said before, you don't know what people are thinking and you can't assume or you'll make an ass out of you and me.


Brian Hayes

Yes, it's true.


Brian Hayes

Open ended questions.


Brian Hayes

And if you actually are curious, like that's another thing with empathy is like, I actually want to know.


Brian Hayes

I'm not just checking something off my list, like, I want to know because I'm trying to understand you, like, tell me about that, like why and really ask those open ended questions to try to figure it out and just be genuinely like, I just want to know.


Brian Hayes

Yeah, I'm not just trying to make a sale.


Kelly Kennedy

One of the things that I really wanted to chat with you about, Brian, is I wanted to better understand some of the challenges that you're seeing in the sales field.


Kelly Kennedy

You know, you've been, you've had elevate X, you're out there working with companies.


Kelly Kennedy

What are some of the challenges that you're running into fairly consistently?


Kelly Kennedy

What are you seeing on a consistent basis with these companies you're working with?


Kelly Kennedy

Are there like a handful of challenges that seem to be coming up pretty consistently?


Brian Hayes

Yes.


Brian Hayes

Sourcing contact information for a prospect and then trying to like find a database.


Brian Hayes

Everyone uses the same database right now.


Brian Hayes

It's called Apollo I.O.


Brian Hayes

and everyone's calling the same people, the same type, but it's trying to find, not trying to narrow it down.


Brian Hayes

It's like, when should I call them and who should I call?


Brian Hayes

And finding it specifically.


Brian Hayes

They don't know their data.


Brian Hayes

They're like, yeah, we want someone that is male between the age of 25 and 45.


Brian Hayes

I'm like, no, that's not even close.


Brian Hayes

Like, what are, who are they?


Brian Hayes

Yeah, like really get into who they are and who is your customer.


Brian Hayes

That's the biggest, I think the number one biggest struggle.


Brian Hayes

They don't know their target audience, they don't know how to sell to them and they also don't know how to buy, how they want to buy.


Brian Hayes

Because some people want to communicate through WhatsApp, some people want to communicate through LinkedIn, some people are texting, hey, give me a call, leave me a voicemail, I'll call you back.


Brian Hayes

You know, some.


Brian Hayes

So you just have to figure out how they want to buy and how they want to communicate.


Brian Hayes

Those are the two biggest ones.


Brian Hayes

The other one, I think it's less Important, but it's still pretty important, is retaining salespeople like good salespeople.


Brian Hayes

Yes, that's a big one.


Brian Hayes

And so they, they're even.


Brian Hayes

Even if they hired me, they're like, are you gonna leave?


Brian Hayes

Like, probably.


Brian Hayes

You say that.


Kelly Kennedy

You'Re already priming me.


Brian Hayes

Man, I'm already gone, man.


Brian Hayes

You signed that already.


Brian Hayes

Yeah, but it's, it's capturing someone's attention and keeping it.


Brian Hayes

Yeah, and that's hard in sales, I think, because everyone's looking for the grab greener grass on the other side.


Brian Hayes

Sometimes it is greener and sometimes it's not.


Brian Hayes

Sometimes it's worse.


Brian Hayes

You just don't see it because you want to see it a different way.


Brian Hayes

Putting your perspective.


Brian Hayes

You're putting your, your opinion out there again.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah, yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

Well, I think one of the biggest challenges we have now, and you know, we talked about this ahead of the show, is that people are getting bombarded with so much stuff that's promising them things that I think me and, you know, are probably not going to happen.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah, but they don't know that, right?


Kelly Kennedy

Like, they don't know if they get, if they get someone coming up to them and saying, like, hey, I got this virtual assistant that can get you 50 leads in the next week.


Kelly Kennedy

They don't know what to believe and what not to believe.


Kelly Kennedy

Do you have any, like, guidelines or rules that you would maybe give to companies to better screen out what is an authentically good move versus what is, you know, a high risk move?


Kelly Kennedy

And I think the reason they're so confused is because like you said, with the advent of AI, nobody knows what's really possible and what's not possible.


Brian Hayes

Yep, yep.


Brian Hayes

I am looking at my spam box and I deleted, like, at least every day.


Brian Hayes

I got.


Brian Hayes

I have received 66 different email, probably AI, most of them AI.


Brian Hayes

My opinion and my advice is ask them to do it for free.


Brian Hayes

Like, okay, show me, show me the money.


Brian Hayes

Show me the real stuff.


Brian Hayes

Like, make them prove it.


Brian Hayes

And I don't know how that is for anyone's business, but make them prove it.


Brian Hayes

And not testimonials.


Brian Hayes

Oh, well, this person said this about me.


Brian Hayes

Well, that's, that's great.


Brian Hayes

It's not me.


Brian Hayes

Like, prove it for me.


Brian Hayes

So bring me value and I'll provide you value, which is my time and your ability to represent or maybe your client.


Brian Hayes

So you have to always bring value.


Brian Hayes

So when I call somebody, I'm like, hey, I thought that this would benefit you.


Brian Hayes

Do you have a moment to talk about something that benefits me?


Brian Hayes

So you're asking for their time, but you're paying for it.


Brian Hayes

At least that's how it is in Real Estate City.


Kelly Kennedy

Okay.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah, I know, man.


Kelly Kennedy

Like I.


Kelly Kennedy

Like you said, like, my inbox too, is full of it.


Kelly Kennedy

And the funny thing is, it's like, obviously I have a business development firm where we focus on active marketing.


Kelly Kennedy

So we're not really using AI, right?


Kelly Kennedy

Like, we're using old school, real phone calls, real people doing real work.


Kelly Kennedy

Like, that's, that's what I've always found.


Kelly Kennedy

Just worked and.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

Is it, Is it, Does it, does it take a minute?


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah, it takes a minute.


Kelly Kennedy

There's nothing that's fast.


Kelly Kennedy

There's nothing that's going to happen overnight.


Kelly Kennedy

Business development is not a race, right?


Kelly Kennedy

No, good business development takes time.


Kelly Kennedy

I've said that since the very beginning.


Kelly Kennedy

But it's effective, very effective, especially with active marketing.


Kelly Kennedy

But you know, I use AI tools, right?


Kelly Kennedy

Like we use ChatGPT to help us with some copy.


Kelly Kennedy

I still throw myself back into it and I always tell people, stop completely copying and pasting because you sound like a robot.


Brian Hayes

Or you use a word that you're not normally using.


Kelly Kennedy

That's right.


Kelly Kennedy

That's right.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

If there's a word that you're like, I'd never use that.


Kelly Kennedy

Put your word in there.


Brian Hayes

Yes.


Kelly Kennedy

But you know, not just that, not just ChatGPT, right?


Kelly Kennedy

Like, obviously, running this podcast, I use AI tools.


Kelly Kennedy

We use stuff like Riverside, which we're in right now recording this show.


Kelly Kennedy

We use opus clips to help us with the clips.


Kelly Kennedy

We use other things to help us with the transcripts and our audiograms and other things that we like to put out with our shows.


Kelly Kennedy

So there's a lot of tools being used and some of them are very redundant because they have maybe one thing that the other one doesn't have.


Kelly Kennedy

So I need to keep the stupid tool even though I'm paying stupid amounts of money for all of these monthly subscriptions.


Kelly Kennedy

Right.


Kelly Kennedy

And it's driving me bonkers.


Kelly Kennedy

And.


Kelly Kennedy

Oh, man, Like, I just, I know people are being inundated with these crazy AI tools and they don't know what to go with or what's effective.


Kelly Kennedy

And like I said, we're using redundant ones that can maybe do something that other people do.


Kelly Kennedy

You have any advice for people that are.


Kelly Kennedy

That are using these tools?


Brian Hayes

It's AI is never going to replace you.


Brian Hayes

As much as someone says they're going to, it's not going to.


Brian Hayes

And the reason for that is people buy from people and that's always going to be because they want to hold someone accountable.


Brian Hayes

So if they're reaching out and saying, oh, we'll reach out and we'll set all these appointments for you, we'll.


Brian Hayes

They're not going to be quality.


Brian Hayes

They're not going to be there.


Brian Hayes

Just probably someone's like, yeah, just messing around because he knows it's the AI.


Brian Hayes

So use what is not time tested, but use what is authentic and real and it's never going to replace you.


Brian Hayes

And just use it as a tool.


Brian Hayes

That's all it is.


Brian Hayes

It's supposed to help you be a better you, not replace anything.


Kelly Kennedy

And that's why I think I really love the idea of your tool, Ty, because that's going to be so cool.


Kelly Kennedy

Because that's the problem.


Kelly Kennedy

That is a real life problem.


Kelly Kennedy

We're doing lots of meetings.


Kelly Kennedy

Business owners are meeting with people all the time.


Kelly Kennedy

If they had a tool that could be live action with them, giving them ideas on how to better execute a meeting.


Kelly Kennedy

My gosh, how powerful.


Kelly Kennedy

That's a really great idea.


Brian Hayes

Thank you.


Brian Hayes

Thank you.


Brian Hayes

I need to hurry up because someone's going to take this idea.


Brian Hayes

Let's open this podcast while you have.


Kelly Kennedy

A little bit of time.


Kelly Kennedy

This show is probably releasing about four months from now, so you just got to be faster than that.


Brian Hayes

Yes.


Kelly Kennedy

No pressure.


Brian Hayes

Clock starts today.


Kelly Kennedy

Oh, Brian, it's been an honor, dude.


Kelly Kennedy

Thank you for coming on and sharing this with us.


Kelly Kennedy

You know, I would love it if you would chat a little bit about Elevate X, though.


Kelly Kennedy

Can you tell us a little bit about what services you offer, what areas you serve, and then we'll go from there?


Brian Hayes

Absolutely.


Brian Hayes

Elevate X Sales is a marketing agency for commercial real estate professionals and commercial real estate owners.


Brian Hayes

And we're offering a suite of services from just regular social media marketing to doing it for you and setting tours and reaching out to specific tenants in a geographic area that might be interested in a vacant space that you have at your building or then we'll actually do it for you, which is we're actually going to take the deal from the initial online presence, the lead to tour, to closing the deal and facilitating the transaction.


Brian Hayes

And it's.


Brian Hayes

We're trying to bring life to commercial real estate.


Brian Hayes

Bring some not authenticity, but bring some entertainment to it.


Brian Hayes

Boring.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Brian Hayes

And everyone knows, everyone thinks it's just about the numbers.


Brian Hayes

And so we need to add some color to it and really paint a better picture of what it's going to be for your business.


Brian Hayes

So we're putting out specific content, property tours, kind of like, I don't know if you've ever seen the Property Brothers.


Kelly Kennedy

Yep.


Brian Hayes

Where they actually will go in with their camera and then all of a sudden they're like, oh, and it can do this.


Brian Hayes

And all this stuff turns and all the walls come down.


Brian Hayes

I want to do that for commercial real estate.


Kelly Kennedy

Very cool, Very cool.


Kelly Kennedy

And, you know, obviously you're in Dallas.


Kelly Kennedy

We've talked about that.


Kelly Kennedy

But is this, like, North America wide?


Kelly Kennedy

Like, is there anywhere you wouldn't service?


Brian Hayes

Well, the only difference, I can practice real estate, and so it depends on which package you decide, but it can be anywhere because the rules and regulations will be upheld when it comes to the advertising portion of it.


Brian Hayes

But when it comes to the actual execution of the transaction, I can do stuff in Texas, I can do stuff outside of Texas, but I have to have.


Brian Hayes

I have to facilitate with a broker in that area to do it legally.


Brian Hayes

So then that becomes sticky.


Brian Hayes

So we can do it all in the United States, North America.


Brian Hayes

It depends on what your real estate regulations are.


Brian Hayes

And we would have to talk about that on a.


Brian Hayes

On a separate one.


Brian Hayes

But the other services, SEO Management Online.


Brian Hayes

Think of it as your online listing in your online presence of your property.


Brian Hayes

Does it have a social media presence?


Brian Hayes

Does it even have a following?


Brian Hayes

Or is it gaining cobwebs?


Brian Hayes

Like, tell me about it.


Brian Hayes

You know, let's.


Brian Hayes

Let's put out as much information to reach as many people because someone might use Facebook, someone might use YouTube, someone might use LinkedIn, but they're all going to be a target tenant for you, so you might as well try them all.


Brian Hayes

And that's what we're doing, as well as email and cold call outreach and things of that nature.


Kelly Kennedy

Yeah.


Kelly Kennedy

The reason I asked is that, you know, obviously we have a large North American audience, we have a big Canadian audience and a big U.S.


Kelly Kennedy

audience.


Kelly Kennedy

And I did just want to know, can you service Canada?


Kelly Kennedy

Is that on the table for you?


Brian Hayes

I would love to.


Brian Hayes

International.


Brian Hayes

That is definitely in the plans.


Brian Hayes

Definitely in the plans.


Brian Hayes

When it comes to execution of a transaction, I would probably refer that to a local real estate professional there to do the negotiations and the transaction.


Brian Hayes

But the online presence of it.


Brian Hayes

Absolutely.


Brian Hayes

I would fly to Canada just to make some content.


Brian Hayes

That would be so much fun.


Brian Hayes

Just not in the winter.


Kelly Kennedy

I was going to say we got some nice mountains, but yeah, I would say keep it to spring and summer.


Brian Hayes

Because it's better for the lighting of the video.


Kelly Kennedy

Absolutely, Absolutely.


Kelly Kennedy

Brian, thank you so much.


Kelly Kennedy

We've been graced today by Brian Hayes of Elevate X Sales.


Kelly Kennedy

And thanks for sharing your knowledge with us.


Kelly Kennedy

Your vulnerability.


Kelly Kennedy

I think, I think we probably helped that one or two businesses today.


Kelly Kennedy

So I think we did what we set out to do.


Brian Hayes

Yes.


Kelly Kennedy

Until next time, this has been episode 182 of the Business Development Podcast and we will catch you on the flip side.


Brian Hayes

Bye everyone.


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Mark Cuban

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