From Rock Bottom to Resilience: Bryan Hayes on Climbing Back After Devastating Losses


Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of mental health challenges, including mentions of suicide. If you or someone you know is struggling, please remember you’re not alone—help is available. In Canada, you can call or text the suicide hotline at 9-8-8, 24/7.
In this powerful episode of The Business Development Podcast, Kelly Kennedy sits down with Bryan Hayes, founder and president of ElevateX Sales, for a deep and candid conversation on resilience, mental health, and empathy in the world of sales. Bryan opens up about his personal journey from rock bottom to resilience, sharing how he faced life-altering losses in his career and the emotional toll that nearly broke him. He discusses the challenges of navigating the business world after losing high-stakes deals, the mental strain that came with it, and how, at his lowest point, he found the strength to rebuild. With unfiltered honesty, Bryan recounts the role his loved ones and mentors played in helping him regain his sense of purpose and the critical choices that ultimately led to his comeback.
Beyond his inspiring story of resilience, Bryan and Kelly dive into the importance of empathy in sales, exploring how understanding and connecting with clients on a deeper level can redefine success. Bryan explains how his experiences shaped his unique approach to business, emphasizing that genuine relationships are the foundation of impactful sales. Together, they discuss practical ways business owners and sales professionals can incorporate empathy into their interactions, and how Bryan’s journey informed his vision for ElevateX Sales. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to overcome setbacks, find motivation, and approach business with a renewed sense of purpose and authenticity.
Key Takeaways:
1. Embrace resilience in the face of failure; every setback is a chance to rebuild stronger.
2. Empathy is essential in sales; truly seeing things from your client’s perspective creates lasting trust.
3. Lean on your support network during challenging times; loved ones and mentors can be invaluable.
4. Mental health struggles are real in business; seeking help can make a world of difference.
5. In tough moments, remember why you started and what you’re working toward.
6. When deals fall apart, focus on what you learned and how it prepares you for future success.
7. Authenticity in client interactions builds stronger, more meaningful business relationships.
8. Taking a break to reassess your path can lead to new insights and directions.
9. Use adversity as fuel for growth; it can unlock new strengths you didn’t know you had.
10. Developing a unique sales approach that aligns with your values can set you apart in the industry.
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Welcome to episode 182 of the Business Development Podcast.
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And on today's expert guest interview we are chatting with the great Brian Hayes.
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We are chatting all about sales, life and mental health.
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Hello.
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Welcome to episode 182 of the Business Development Podcast.
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And today we bring an absolute rockstar expert for you, Brian Hayes.
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Brian is a seasoned sales and business development professional with over 15 years of diverse experience across various industries including sales consulting, real estate and fitness.
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As the founder and president of Elevate X Sales Inc.
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Based in Dallas, Texas, Brian is pioneering the future of sales consulting by integrating AI driven insights with innovative strategies.
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His extensive career journey reflects a commitment to excellence from his role as marketing director at NAI Robert Lin, where he facilitated over 50 commercial transactions, to his impactful tenure at Innovative Recovery RAB Inc.
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And the Waller Group where he drove national growth and sourced multimillion dollar investment opportunities.
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Brian's passion for sales and client success is matched by his dedication to continuous learning and leadership.
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His entrepreneurial spirit led him to establish Elevate X Sales Inc.
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A company dedicated to redefining sales excellence through a holistic client centric approach.
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Whether it's transforming sales teams with cutting edge elearning programs or preparing companies for the future.
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With the upcoming AI sales companion ti, Brian is set in helping businesses achieve unparalleled success and thrive in a competitive landscape.
Kelly Kennedy
Brian, it's an honor to have you join us today.
Brian Hayes
Thank you.
Brian Hayes
That was.
Brian Hayes
That was quite an introduction I was.
Brian Hayes
I couldn't have said it better myself, but you said it way better.
Kelly Kennedy
Well, thank you.
Brian Hayes
Was that chatgpt?
Brian Hayes
That's what that was.
Kelly Kennedy
We do use a little bit of help, but, you know, we love a rock star entrance.
Kelly Kennedy
We really do.
Kelly Kennedy
On the show.
Brian Hayes
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
Thank you.
Brian Hayes
Thank you.
Brian Hayes
No, I love it.
Brian Hayes
I love it.
Brian Hayes
Whoever wrote it, it was great.
Kelly Kennedy
There you go.
Kelly Kennedy
There you go.
Kelly Kennedy
I'm going to take credit.
Brian Hayes
Good.
Brian Hayes
Better.
Kelly Kennedy
Your show, Brian.
Kelly Kennedy
It's an absolute honor to have you on the show.
Kelly Kennedy
You know, we connected on LinkedIn a while ago, and we've kind of been chatting back and forth.
Kelly Kennedy
You know, I've had the pleasure to meet quite a few people from Texas, and, you know, I think I've liked every one of them.
Kelly Kennedy
So it's an honor to have you join us today.
Kelly Kennedy
I'm really looking forward to our convers on sales.
Kelly Kennedy
There's a lot to chat about here and there's a lot of new things.
Kelly Kennedy
And I know we talked kind of before the show, but I said, you know, there's a lot of new sales ideas coming up.
Kelly Kennedy
There's a lot of people getting, like, swamped every day from a whole bunch of people saying they can generate a thousand leads a day or whatever.
Kelly Kennedy
You know what I'm talking about.
Kelly Kennedy
You got.
Kelly Kennedy
Your inbox is full of these things, too.
Brian Hayes
Yes.
Kelly Kennedy
And so I think sales is starting to get this, like, weird place where nobody knows what to trust, especially with the advent of AI especially with the advent of now these virtual assistants that seem to be popping up left, right and center, right.
Kelly Kennedy
So, you know, I want to dive deep into that today, but I want to chat a lot with you.
Kelly Kennedy
You know, you have a very, very broad marketing experience, sales experience, business development experience.
Kelly Kennedy
You've been around the block.
Kelly Kennedy
You know what you're talking about.
Kelly Kennedy
So we're going to, you know, chat.
Kelly Kennedy
And my goal today with this show is really just to help entrepreneurs make good decisions, be able to invest their money safely and in something that is actually going to lead to sales and revenue for their companies because, you know, nobody wants to get screwed, and I don't want anybody to get screwed.
Kelly Kennedy
And if we can help even one company today, you know, we've done our job.
Brian Hayes
Yes, one company.
Brian Hayes
That's.
Brian Hayes
That's our goal today.
Kelly Kennedy
It, you know, it's a really simple, simple metric.
Kelly Kennedy
I feel like.
Kelly Kennedy
I feel like one.
Kelly Kennedy
I'll be happy.
Brian Hayes
Yep, yep.
Brian Hayes
I do that one.
Brian Hayes
Clock out, go home.
Kelly Kennedy
But before we do this, dude, bring us back to the beginning.
Kelly Kennedy
Who is Brian Hayes?
Kelly Kennedy
How did you end up on this journey?
Brian Hayes
Oh my.
Brian Hayes
Well, this journey.
Brian Hayes
Journey has been an interesting journey.
Brian Hayes
I will start off by saying, you know, the, the hard part first, which is I'm actually.
Brian Hayes
My mother was 16 when she had had me and teen pregnancy in Salt Lake City, Utah, a very religious area.
Brian Hayes
I don't know if you're familiar with Salt Lake City, but that's where the Mormons, the LDS Church is.
Brian Hayes
And it was difficult growing up.
Brian Hayes
I was, she was the youngest of four and so I was the oldest.
Brian Hayes
The her children, of course, and I've got one other sister.
Brian Hayes
And it was interesting growing up and kind of being.
Brian Hayes
I was the oddball, honestly.
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You know, some people say, oh, I was a black sheep.
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I was this, I was that.
Brian Hayes
No, I was the oddball.
Brian Hayes
You know, no one wanted to be my friend of sorts.
Brian Hayes
You know, I had several friends, but it was just different.
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I just never fit in.
Brian Hayes
I really didn't feel like I fit in.
Brian Hayes
So when I was a kid, I didn't even like the snow.
Brian Hayes
And I Salt Lake City, Utah snows.
Brian Hayes
And so I knew I had to leave when I could.
Brian Hayes
And then I took the first opportunity, took a job with.
Brian Hayes
And this was 2008 and I had started in home remodeling, construction.
Brian Hayes
And then 2008, housing market and recession happened.
Brian Hayes
So I was like, well, false start, let's try again.
Brian Hayes
And then I transferred over to a smaller distribution company.
Brian Hayes
They sold specialty art supplies to schools, churches, marketing agencies and sold the actual products that they would use.
Brian Hayes
And their biggest customer was in Mexico City.
Brian Hayes
And so they said, brian, we want you to move to Texas.
Brian Hayes
I was like, well, when are we going?
Brian Hayes
Like, I'm ready to go and I've been waiting.
Brian Hayes
And I was 20 at the time.
Brian Hayes
I had a thousand dollars in my bank account and I was like, I packed up everything in my car and I was like, we're going.
Brian Hayes
Like, I have to leave.
Brian Hayes
There's like something's calling me.
Brian Hayes
And they gave me a choice whether I wanted to go to Dallas, Houston, Austin or San Antonio.
Brian Hayes
And at the time, 2008, we had Google Maps, but it wasn't as great as it is now.
Brian Hayes
So it has some street views.
Brian Hayes
And so I actually went through and went through some of the street views and I was like, yes, I like this.
Brian Hayes
And moved here, Drove actually straight away non stop.
Brian Hayes
I was so excited to get here, Worked for the company for a year.
Brian Hayes
And then they closed down.
Brian Hayes
The two owners got in a fight, they closed down.
Brian Hayes
So I'm like in 1400 miles away from home, going, okay, well, I guess I'm staying here because I like it.
Brian Hayes
And I started leasing apartments and that wasn't typically for me, you know, it was in real estate.
Brian Hayes
I knew I always wanted to be in real estate, but that was the first entry and I didn't have a license at the time.
Brian Hayes
Didn't really know what to do and how to get into the industry.
Brian Hayes
So I sold our lease apartments.
Brian Hayes
After I decided that wasn't for me, I went to a company called U.S.
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trade Finance Corp.
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And they did consignment sales for heavy construction equipment.
Brian Hayes
That definitely wasn't for me.
Brian Hayes
Just not rough around the edges.
Brian Hayes
And you're speaking to people that are rough around the edges, so they're going to tell you exactly how it is when you're cold.
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Calling construction guy, he owns a crane or excavator, front end loader.
Brian Hayes
He's going to tell you how it is.
Brian Hayes
He'd be like, get the F off the phone.
Brian Hayes
Like, what are you doing?
Brian Hayes
It's.
Brian Hayes
And so I just.
Brian Hayes
I have thick skin, but, yeah, I don't want to get beat up.
Kelly Kennedy
A little harsh.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah, that's fair.
Brian Hayes
So the owner's wife actually came to me and she said, brian, you need to go somewhere where you can talk to somebody in person all day, every day.
Brian Hayes
I was like, okay.
Brian Hayes
In high school, I was a swimmer, and so I thought, okay, I'll do something athletics.
Brian Hayes
And so I went and sold memberships for Lifetime Fitness.
Brian Hayes
A gym.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah, if you're familiar with Lifetime, we have them here.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
Beautiful, aren't they?
Kelly Kennedy
They are.
Brian Hayes
And sold memberships as I was getting some certifications from the National Academy of Sports Medicine.
Brian Hayes
So I didn't.
Brian Hayes
I obviously skipped over this part, but I didn't attend college.
Brian Hayes
And so this was my formal education of sorts.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
To kind of come with the trade.
Brian Hayes
And once I got my certification, I applied for a personal training job at the location I was at.
Brian Hayes
And they said, no, I don't have any experience.
Brian Hayes
They wanted me to stay in membership sales.
Brian Hayes
So I was like, okay, well, I'm leaving.
Brian Hayes
And I went to 24 Hour Fitness.
Brian Hayes
It's a larger chain at the time.
Brian Hayes
They have more locations.
Brian Hayes
Maybe not now, but worked there for a year.
Brian Hayes
Got four other certifications.
Brian Hayes
Corrective exercise performance enhancement, fitness, nutrition and mixed martial arts conditioning.
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Trained clients from all walks of life, from attorneys all the way down to single moms and kids in college and just paying with their.
Brian Hayes
There was one client that paid with her student.
Brian Hayes
Student loan card, I think it is.
Kelly Kennedy
Oh, wow.
Brian Hayes
I was like, you sure?
Brian Hayes
And she's like, yes.
Brian Hayes
I was like, okay.
Brian Hayes
It's education.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah, yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
Those student loan cards, man.
Kelly Kennedy
Like, you can't.
Kelly Kennedy
You can't escape that debt.
Brian Hayes
No.
Brian Hayes
And that's what I told her.
Brian Hayes
And I was like, okay, if that's what you want.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
I was honored.
Kelly Kennedy
Oh, to be young and dumb again.
Brian Hayes
There should be money on this card.
Brian Hayes
Golly.
Brian Hayes
But so trained at 24 Hour Fitness.
Brian Hayes
And then I just.
Brian Hayes
I wanted to have a better gym, so I went back to the original gym that I sold memberships for.
Brian Hayes
It's a big, large one.
Brian Hayes
It's a platinum diamond location.
Brian Hayes
And I applied again.
Brian Hayes
They were like, okay, now you have experience.
Brian Hayes
I'm like, oh, now I'm good enough.
Brian Hayes
So trained there.
Brian Hayes
Trained lots of executive C suite.
Brian Hayes
It's next to Toyota's headquarters.
Brian Hayes
So I trained several of the C suites, some Chief Technical Officers, CEOs, doctors, lawyers, entrepreneurs, and really got to have a conversation about business.
Brian Hayes
That was the interesting part, because you.
Brian Hayes
I have to keep them entertained while they're going through pain.
Brian Hayes
So I was the comedian for the hour.
Brian Hayes
But that's where I learned the empathy in sales is you need to see it from their eyes.
Brian Hayes
Like, how would they want to be treated?
Brian Hayes
And so I always treated my clients.
Brian Hayes
You know, every client was different.
Brian Hayes
So I would be different with one than the other.
Brian Hayes
I'd have more jokes for another.
Brian Hayes
I'd have less clean jokes for another.
Brian Hayes
And honed that.
Brian Hayes
Didn't know empathy, you know, that wasn't a word in my vocabulary at the time, but I knew it was like, I'm seeing it from your eyes.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
And that's when I kind of found the superpower.
Brian Hayes
And one of my clients looked at me and said, brian, you're too smart to be counting to 10.
Brian Hayes
And it blew my mind.
Brian Hayes
Changed the whole trajectory of my life.
Brian Hayes
I went to.
Brian Hayes
I started being a private personal trainer and trying to do, you know, some sort of business.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
And it then came to apparent where I needed to figure out how I can make money without having to not train somebody, but having to actually work that hour.
Brian Hayes
So I needed to maximize my time.
Brian Hayes
So I thought, okay, well, where.
Brian Hayes
Where can I go and get some.
Brian Hayes
Something professional?
Brian Hayes
Even without a degree?
Brian Hayes
And real estate has a.
Brian Hayes
Not a low barrier of entry, but you need a license and you can practice, and it has education.
Brian Hayes
So I got my real estate license, and I didn't want to do residential.
Brian Hayes
I wanted to do commercial.
Brian Hayes
I think, you know, when you sell residential, it's more of how you Feel.
Brian Hayes
How does this house make you feel?
Brian Hayes
You see your family here with things different sales process.
Brian Hayes
With commercial, it's more of, here's the numbers, here's what it is.
Brian Hayes
Do you like it?
Brian Hayes
Does it work?
Brian Hayes
Does it make sense for your business future?
Brian Hayes
You know, it's less emotional, it's more logical.
Brian Hayes
Even though I have empathy based sales, I thought that was a good mix.
Kelly Kennedy
Sure.
Brian Hayes
So I worked for a small boutique brokerage firm that did investment sales for multifamily.
Brian Hayes
Was there for less, less than a year.
Brian Hayes
And I was like, I gotta go.
Brian Hayes
Sourced lots of deals, but they just never executed on any of them.
Brian Hayes
And I was like, I'm not gonna see the commission that I want to see.
Brian Hayes
So this is not the commercial I'm thinking of.
Brian Hayes
So I did research and I looked at the top five firms in Dallas, including cbre, JLL and Nai.
Brian Hayes
Robert Lynn is the local firm.
Brian Hayes
And I applied to all of them.
Brian Hayes
They all turned me down.
Brian Hayes
And Nai at least gave me a shot.
Brian Hayes
They, they took a meeting, they took an interview and passed the interview.
Brian Hayes
Then went to the gauntlet, is what I call it.
Brian Hayes
It was six interviews in one day and they were all an hour plus long.
Brian Hayes
And it was just one after the other.
Brian Hayes
Met with CEO, principal, principal, principal, CEO.
Brian Hayes
It was, it was interesting and passed the gauntlet.
Brian Hayes
And after passing the gauntlet, they provided me with.
Brian Hayes
Because you, they give you a market so you've got like a franchise almost.
Brian Hayes
So they give you a market of specialty.
Brian Hayes
And that was the urban market for retail.
Brian Hayes
So I was downtown, uptown, deep Ellum.
Brian Hayes
I don't know if you're familiar with Dallas.
Brian Hayes
It's kind of a trendy restaurant area, party area.
Brian Hayes
That was my market of focus.
Brian Hayes
They were like, dive in.
Brian Hayes
We've never done it.
Brian Hayes
We don't even know what's out there.
Brian Hayes
I had to do research on the market to find out what retail properties were there.
Brian Hayes
And they were like, yeah, that's yours and you're off.
Brian Hayes
And there's no salary.
Brian Hayes
It's 100% commission.
Brian Hayes
There's a draw, but it's 30,000 a year.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
So it doesn't cover.
Brian Hayes
It keeps your covers.
Kelly Kennedy
Nothing.
Kelly Kennedy
No.
Brian Hayes
So for the first, you know, year, it was struggle learning a new market.
Brian Hayes
And it's the most competitive market in Dallas because everyone wants a listing in uptown, in downtown.
Brian Hayes
And so I was competing with a lot of the hot shots.
Brian Hayes
And so when someone says that is that reference 30K Millionaire?
Brian Hayes
Like, I totally get it.
Brian Hayes
Because I had to pretend like I was successful in order to get some of those opportunities, but got several listings.
Brian Hayes
I leased for some several high rise buildings in downtown Dallas and had a Mid America apartments.
Brian Hayes
They're a pretty large ownership group nationally.
Brian Hayes
And this is right before COVID We signed an agreement where we took over the leasing for 10 different properties.
Brian Hayes
And not two weeks later, Covid happened.
Brian Hayes
Completely changed the game.
Brian Hayes
And mine being the urban market, the most dense, the most highly populated, everyone ran away.
Brian Hayes
So nothing.
Brian Hayes
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
So I did zero deals.
Brian Hayes
So I get out of this training program and then go in and here comes Covet.
Brian Hayes
I also had brain surgery that year.
Kelly Kennedy
Oh, wow.
Brian Hayes
During.
Brian Hayes
Yeah, during COVID believe it or not.
Brian Hayes
And crazy experience was benign.
Brian Hayes
So it's fine.
Brian Hayes
I'm fine now.
Brian Hayes
But it was still a rough year.
Brian Hayes
21 was my comeback year.
Brian Hayes
I proposed to my fiance at the top of one of the high rise buildings.
Brian Hayes
I changed the lights on the other high rise building.
Brian Hayes
You know, at the top of the world closing.
Brian Hayes
I started getting pretty close to closing my 50 transactions.
Brian Hayes
I did a few in 2022, but the bulk of them were in that year.
Brian Hayes
So I was just on the top of the world, ready to go.
Brian Hayes
And then 22 happened.
Brian Hayes
And I didn't see the success monetarily that I wanted to.
Brian Hayes
And so I was like, okay, well what else could I do?
Brian Hayes
And there was an opportunity to work with a group called Sonder and they wanted to do office to residential conversions and that is, you know, construction permitting and all of that stuff.
Brian Hayes
So it'd be.
Brian Hayes
Make it a mixed use property where you'd have office, some floors and residential, some floors, hotels, some floors, retail at the bottom.
Brian Hayes
Right.
Brian Hayes
And they wanted me to introduce them to some of the owners in, in those markets because I knew them all.
Brian Hayes
I was calling them and talking with them as I was trying to represent them on the retail on the bottom floor.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
And so was able to make several introductions.
Brian Hayes
We lined up several deals where they would take several hundred contiguous square feet of property of, of the building and do a master lease.
Brian Hayes
And those commissions would have netted me well over a million dollars each of them.
Brian Hayes
And I signed up six.
Kelly Kennedy
Wow.
Kelly Kennedy
Wow.
Brian Hayes
And so I was flying high in 22, ready to go.
Brian Hayes
Interest rates started to change and one by one, each of them fell.
Brian Hayes
And the owners called me and were like, Brian, like we can't pursue this deal.
Brian Hayes
I know you've worked hard on it, but interest rates, it just doesn't pencil out.
Brian Hayes
I'm sorry.
Brian Hayes
One after the other, the end of the year, all of them died.
Brian Hayes
And I'm at The end of the year going, okay, well, I can kill myself or I can continue.
Brian Hayes
So I decided to continue.
Brian Hayes
Oh, man, it was so bad.
Brian Hayes
I mean, it was.
Brian Hayes
When you lose that and you work hard and you tell people and everyone in the office knows what is happening, that you're about to make something great happen.
Brian Hayes
You know, leasing several hundred contiguous square feet and doing something new in a market, the buzz gets around.
Brian Hayes
You know, my nickname was Big Big fees.
Brian Hayes
I love it.
Brian Hayes
I was chasing those big fees.
Brian Hayes
Yeah, yeah.
Brian Hayes
I was not missing big fees.
Brian Hayes
And so it didn't happen.
Brian Hayes
And I was like, look, I gotta go.
Brian Hayes
Like, I have to leave.
Brian Hayes
Like, there's just no way.
Brian Hayes
So I took the first job that was going to give me a salary.
Brian Hayes
I never had a salary.
Brian Hayes
First time in my life.
Brian Hayes
I'm 30 years old.
Brian Hayes
Yeah, 32 or 3 at the time.
Brian Hayes
Never had a salary, took a job.
Brian Hayes
But it was in.
Brian Hayes
It was in debt collection.
Brian Hayes
Very interesting industry.
Brian Hayes
And it was not for me.
Brian Hayes
Not that it's a bad industry.
Brian Hayes
It's just.
Brian Hayes
It's different.
Brian Hayes
You know, when you have a conversation, they're like, oh, yeah, what do you do for a living?
Brian Hayes
Oh, I'm in debt collection.
Brian Hayes
You're like, don't worry, I'm not here for you.
Brian Hayes
Calm down.
Kelly Kennedy
Oh, my goodness.
Brian Hayes
I could definitely see that, you know, So I left that company, went to another one to try to figure out maybe it was just that it was real estate focused.
Brian Hayes
Then it went to business debt collection.
Brian Hayes
I stayed there three months.
Brian Hayes
And the reason I went there is they wanted me to focus on marketing and do different outreach.
Brian Hayes
No, no sales outreach.
Brian Hayes
None of.
Brian Hayes
Nothing like that.
Brian Hayes
And then one day they were like, hey, you want to get on the phone to start cold calling?
Brian Hayes
Like, yeah, I can do that.
Brian Hayes
But it's not really what I signed up for.
Brian Hayes
And they started changing what they wanted me to do.
Brian Hayes
So I was like, okay, I got to leave.
Brian Hayes
So I left, took the commission from my last deal that I did at NI Robert Lynn, and founded Elevate X Sales.
Brian Hayes
Because I was like, well, if I can't find a job, I'm going to make a job.
Brian Hayes
And I want to do something that I feel passionate about.
Brian Hayes
And I know I can sell because it's.
Brian Hayes
So I'm putting my stamp of approval on it.
Brian Hayes
I'm sick of doing it for someone else.
Brian Hayes
Not that it's bad to do that.
Brian Hayes
It's just not what I wanted to do.
Kelly Kennedy
Sure.
Brian Hayes
And it started as an elearning company, Then I switched to making it more focused towards sales Outreach, third party.
Brian Hayes
And now it's going full circle.
Brian Hayes
We're going back to commercial real estate and get back on the saddle, and we're going to do marketing for commercial real estate properties because there's a big gap in the market.
Brian Hayes
They don't do social media, they don't do SEO.
Brian Hayes
They don't understand that.
Brian Hayes
And I want to bring life to commercial real estate and kind of do what residential does where they have guided walkthroughs of the house, some actual character.
Brian Hayes
It's not just, here's the deal.
Brian Hayes
It's, yeah, well, here's the deal.
Brian Hayes
And it's all dressed up and nice, and this is how we could look for your business, interviewing tenants, things that nature so long winded, but lots unpacked there.
Brian Hayes
But I'm excited to continue to pursue forward with my sales career with Elevate X Sales.
Brian Hayes
And thank you for having me.
Kelly Kennedy
No, no.
Kelly Kennedy
Amazing.
Kelly Kennedy
Amazing.
Kelly Kennedy
Man, I can't imagine, like, I was listening to your story where you're talking about, like, you know, the losses of those deals, one after one.
Kelly Kennedy
And, you know, I mean, at that point, you've probably already, like, forecast your future, what you're gonna do with that money, what life is gonna be like.
Kelly Kennedy
You know, things are gonna.
Kelly Kennedy
It's gonna be that boost that you need for your new marriage, dude.
Kelly Kennedy
Like, oh, I can't.
Kelly Kennedy
You know, I mean, I've had people come on this show who lost their business, lost their investments, everything.
Kelly Kennedy
And I always have to ask when I hear a story like that, dude, how did you come back?
Kelly Kennedy
What did you tell yourself in that moment?
Kelly Kennedy
Because I, you know, I mean, I had that conversation with a gentleman who lost, you know, a few million dollars and literally lost his business, lost his investments, lost everything, and then clawed back, became successful again.
Brian Hayes
Yeah, but.
Brian Hayes
But I always, like.
Kelly Kennedy
And that's the cool story here.
Kelly Kennedy
The cool story here is that a lot of the people I've talked to that had that happen, that is exactly what happened.
Kelly Kennedy
They clawed back and they came back because they had the knowledge on how to do it again.
Brian Hayes
Yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
But I do have to ask you, you know, just as a human to another human, that must.
Kelly Kennedy
First off, that must have been absolutely horrible, and I'm sorry that that happened to you.
Brian Hayes
Thanks.
Kelly Kennedy
And second off, how were you able to motivate yourself and frankly, keep your mental health?
Kelly Kennedy
Okay.
Kelly Kennedy
Because I can imagine losing by the time you lost that sixth deal, and you're just like, like, why, that building's pretty tall.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah, no, I know.
Kelly Kennedy
I can imagine.
Kelly Kennedy
I can imagine.
Kelly Kennedy
Talk to me about that moment.
Brian Hayes
So it really was one thing, and it's my fiance.
Brian Hayes
I didn't want to impact her because I knew how it would make her feel.
Brian Hayes
So empathy is very strong with me.
Brian Hayes
And I put myself in her shoes and I was like, okay, if I kill myself, what is it?
Brian Hayes
How is that going to affect her?
Brian Hayes
And I kind of foresaw her life.
Brian Hayes
Not that I know what she would do, but just my thought of it and I was like, that's not how I want her to live.
Brian Hayes
And I had to literally decide.
Brian Hayes
You have to decide.
Brian Hayes
It's either you're going to do it or you're not going to do it.
Brian Hayes
And I was like, I'm not going to do it.
Brian Hayes
And I'm going to find a way.
Brian Hayes
I'm going to, you know, come lick my wounds, go work at a debt collection agency, chill out for a minute and kind of figure it out.
Brian Hayes
I thought, you know, I just needed a job and I thought that I would just work there for the rest of my life.
Brian Hayes
And then eight months later, I'm like, no, like, that's not me.
Brian Hayes
So you have to figure out who you are.
Brian Hayes
And it takes time.
Brian Hayes
But the initial knee jerk reaction of, well, I'm just going to go and off it.
Brian Hayes
You just have to decide you're not going to.
Brian Hayes
Because I wanted to see how the story ended.
Brian Hayes
I didn't want it to end like that.
Brian Hayes
That was the big thing, honestly.
Brian Hayes
That's interesting.
Brian Hayes
Nerv said that out loud.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
And thank you for that.
Kelly Kennedy
Thank you for being so candid.
Kelly Kennedy
Because I can imagine, I don't know how you felt in that moment.
Kelly Kennedy
What I can say is I can imagine what that must be like.
Kelly Kennedy
And it's not your fault.
Kelly Kennedy
And I think that that's like the worst part about the whole thing.
Kelly Kennedy
There's like, there's nothing.
Kelly Kennedy
There are just circumstances sometimes, Right.
Kelly Kennedy
Like Covid is a perfect example.
Kelly Kennedy
There are circumstances that are completely out of your control.
Kelly Kennedy
That no matter how amazing you are, no matter how great of an entrepreneur, how great of an idea, how great of a business person, how great of a salesperson, business development, you name it, it doesn't matter.
Kelly Kennedy
Because it's not about you.
Kelly Kennedy
It's a circumstance outside of your control.
Kelly Kennedy
And I think as high performance individuals, like, I know you are, I know I am.
Kelly Kennedy
I know a lot of my, my peers are.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah, we can, we can internalize that and say, it's our fault.
Kelly Kennedy
We did it.
Kelly Kennedy
We could have done something different and done it different.
Kelly Kennedy
Like, it's Funny, because it's really a high performance.
Kelly Kennedy
I just did a show, you know, on, on specifically on imposter syndrome.
Kelly Kennedy
And imposter syndrome happens to 70% of people on earth and typically it actually happens to the highest performing individuals.
Kelly Kennedy
Most of the time it's high performance individuals who experience imposter syndrome.
Kelly Kennedy
It's not, it's not typically the people who just start in a position.
Kelly Kennedy
It's usually people who already know exactly what they're doing and are taking that next big step that feel like the biggest frauds and imposters.
Kelly Kennedy
So it really is a challenge for high performance individuals.
Brian Hayes
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
And it's funny, you, you know, mental health, I mean, we're, we just exited May.
Brian Hayes
I think that's Mental health month.
Brian Hayes
That is a big thing.
Brian Hayes
And I think just the message that I want to get across to everyone, if you, if you're struggling with something like that, it's best to tell someone and look for help.
Brian Hayes
But you also have to look for your own help for yourself.
Brian Hayes
Like, you have to internalize it and go, okay, you've got two choices.
Brian Hayes
Choose.
Brian Hayes
And choose well, because the story doesn't have to end that way.
Brian Hayes
That's really what it was.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah, yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
And you know, like, what were some of the techniques you used?
Kelly Kennedy
Obviously you came from, you know, a fitness background.
Kelly Kennedy
What were some of the stress relieving techniques that you, that you utilized in that time to try to build yourself back?
Brian Hayes
David Goggins is a man that I will, I look forward to meeting him.
Brian Hayes
He got me out of a very dark place.
Brian Hayes
He has some content that he posts on YouTube and not a lot of people know this, but I would.
Brian Hayes
I have a little headset here that I put on.
Brian Hayes
I downloaded just all of his motivational content, put it in my head and just listen to that on repeat.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
Over and over and over and over and over again until I can motivate myself again.
Brian Hayes
Because I was a trainer, I used to motivate people and that was the hardest thing.
Brian Hayes
When you're so low, you're like, you don't realize who you are.
Brian Hayes
Like, you almost forget and you have to remind yourself who you are, what you've done, how you've overcome stuff.
Brian Hayes
So you have to find something to kind of grease the wheels.
Brian Hayes
And David Goggins was a great example of overcoming adversity and having that mindset of it's possible.
Brian Hayes
Like, what if instead of, you know, well, that happened?
Brian Hayes
That was sad.
Brian Hayes
It's like, well, what if it changes?
Brian Hayes
How beautiful is that story going to be?
Brian Hayes
Yeah, it's going to be much better.
Brian Hayes
So it's like, what if?
Brian Hayes
That's what I always think.
Brian Hayes
And I think that's a really good thing in business.
Brian Hayes
It's like, what if I do this business venture and it fails, but what if it doesn't?
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
So you want to try and remain as positive as you can, as cliche as that sounds.
Brian Hayes
But you just want to really find out what's going to get you out of the muck.
Brian Hayes
And that's what did on repeat in the shower.
Brian Hayes
I would reap.
Brian Hayes
I can.
Brian Hayes
There's some of his motivational content that's 30 minutes long.
Brian Hayes
I could say it word for word.
Kelly Kennedy
Wow.
Brian Hayes
Yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
Wow.
Brian Hayes
That's how much he was listening to it.
Brian Hayes
That was the only way.
Brian Hayes
It was the only thing I could think of.
Brian Hayes
It was like, I need to find someone motivating me.
Kelly Kennedy
Amazing, amazing dude.
Kelly Kennedy
And, you know, I relate to that so much.
Kelly Kennedy
And what I always kind of recommend to people that are stuck, like, if you're feeling like your business is stagnant, you're stagnant, you're struggling with motivation.
Kelly Kennedy
I always recommend people to listen to, like a new audio book.
Kelly Kennedy
Right.
Kelly Kennedy
Just something to kind of take them out of their frame of mind or their way of thinking and think just a little bit differently.
Kelly Kennedy
Because most of the solutions, they're not.
Kelly Kennedy
They're not 100 miles away.
Kelly Kennedy
They're most of the time one or two books away.
Brian Hayes
Yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
And, you know, it's no different than that inspiring motivational content from David Goggins.
Kelly Kennedy
Right.
Kelly Kennedy
Like, it's the same idea.
Kelly Kennedy
It's like there is help out there.
Kelly Kennedy
It's usually not that far away.
Kelly Kennedy
And I find myself where I get into a pickle, where I'm just like, I need to.
Kelly Kennedy
I need to think differently.
Kelly Kennedy
I need a new idea.
Kelly Kennedy
And when I have that moment, that's when I'm looking for a new book or some.
Kelly Kennedy
Some type of content to just give me a slightly different direction or frame of mind that I didn't have before.
Kelly Kennedy
Because most of the time the good idea, it's not far away.
Kelly Kennedy
It's right there.
Brian Hayes
Yeah, it is.
Brian Hayes
And you just have to reach out and use the tools that you have.
Brian Hayes
So that's really what Elevate X Sales was built on, is just, well, I could only think of a few things that I could bring to the world that's a value and that's my experience and what I've done and what I could do.
Brian Hayes
Not so much what I've done.
Brian Hayes
It's what I could do if given the opportunity.
Brian Hayes
And so you just have to create the environment for your opportunity is really what it is.
Kelly Kennedy
Totally, Totally.
Kelly Kennedy
Man.
Kelly Kennedy
This took a different direction than thought it was going to go.
Kelly Kennedy
That's the funny thing, right?
Kelly Kennedy
Like, people think that these podcasts are just, like, completely scripted and we know.
Kelly Kennedy
But no, not at all.
Kelly Kennedy
Like, I am surprised more often than not at the direction that their show goes.
Kelly Kennedy
It's most of the time quite a bit different than the initial plan that I had.
Kelly Kennedy
But, dude, I am so.
Kelly Kennedy
I'm so thankful that you joined me today and that you were so vulnerable.
Kelly Kennedy
I think it's so.
Kelly Kennedy
And first off, you know, just let me say, like, I'm terribly sorry that that happened to you.
Kelly Kennedy
I am happy that you are still with us.
Kelly Kennedy
I'm happy that you're here on the show with me today, sharing your knowledge, helping the world.
Kelly Kennedy
You know, the world needs more help.
Kelly Kennedy
Business people need to be more helpful.
Kelly Kennedy
We're all in it together.
Kelly Kennedy
It's not a competition.
Kelly Kennedy
We're all in it together.
Kelly Kennedy
It's a big world.
Brian Hayes
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
Oh, yes.
Brian Hayes
Oh, yes.
Brian Hayes
You're in Canada.
Brian Hayes
I'm in Dallas, Texas.
Brian Hayes
I was speaking to someone from Croatia earlier today.
Brian Hayes
You know, I have.
Brian Hayes
Someone just messaged me.
Brian Hayes
It's why you probably heard ding or something.
Brian Hayes
It was India.
Brian Hayes
I'm like this ever since I got out of my little circle and I looked out for other ideas and other avenues and other possibilities.
Brian Hayes
That's really what it is.
Brian Hayes
Like you said, look for.
Brian Hayes
It's just one.
Brian Hayes
Find a way.
Brian Hayes
You just have to not put yourself out there, but try to do something different.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
I could have never.
Kelly Kennedy
You know, I mean, and this is like a really good example.
Kelly Kennedy
When I started this show, I started it in my basement talking to Bob's basement, thinking, like, oh, my gosh.
Kelly Kennedy
Like, who's going to listen to my business development show?
Kelly Kennedy
Right?
Kelly Kennedy
We got great knowledge.
Kelly Kennedy
I know what I'm talking about.
Kelly Kennedy
But, like, who in the world is going to listen to this dude?
Kelly Kennedy
Over 130 countries so far listen to this show.
Brian Hayes
I know.
Brian Hayes
Thanks for reminding me.
Brian Hayes
So I'm nervous again.
Kelly Kennedy
It's absolutely bonkers.
Kelly Kennedy
It, like, blows my mind sometimes.
Kelly Kennedy
The impact of the Internet age.
Kelly Kennedy
The impact and reach that some good advice, some helpful people can have on the world.
Kelly Kennedy
You know, I never thought we're so similar, too.
Brian Hayes
It's so weird.
Brian Hayes
I didn't know that.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
Like, that we're like, dude, we're all just trying to make it, like, we're all just trying to be good people.
Brian Hayes
And win win scenarios.
Brian Hayes
And I mean not everyone, but most of them, most of the people here are just like, hey, help me help you.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah, yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
I got a, I got a message from Australia this week actually and gentlemen reached out.
Kelly Kennedy
Super kind was like, dude, like I'm, you know, I was working in business, like in, in his industry for quite some time and then he ended up in a business development role.
Kelly Kennedy
And just like, thank God you put out this information because there was just nothing out there specific to business development people, right?
Kelly Kennedy
And it's like the whole reason I started this show was when I, when I started my business development career because I always say business development chooses you.
Kelly Kennedy
Nobody goes to school thinking they're going to end up in business development.
Kelly Kennedy
You get chosen.
Kelly Kennedy
It's.
Kelly Kennedy
I, I'm gonna, it's like a badge of honor.
Kelly Kennedy
But I always say like, I, I had to learn, I had to learn everything on my own scramble, put together my own procedures, my own process.
Kelly Kennedy
Just like you have done with Elevate X.
Kelly Kennedy
Like, there's not a lot of help out there.
Kelly Kennedy
And so my goal was really like, we need to stop safeguarding this information.
Kelly Kennedy
If you have something that works, share it with the world.
Kelly Kennedy
Because how many companies fail simply because they didn't know how to market or sell their products?
Brian Hayes
And how much cooler we would be if we all lift each other up instead of like, oh, you're trying to do a business that's gonna fail, you know, instead of doubting.
Brian Hayes
But that brings up a really good point, is the information is not locked, locked up tight anymore.
Brian Hayes
You know, and that comes with AI and the interesting thing that that's brought to the industry.
Brian Hayes
So I know you wanted to talk a little bit about that as well.
Kelly Kennedy
Absolutely.
Brian Hayes
Interesting how the information is not locked up tight in the universities anymore.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah, yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
Well, let's just get into it.
Kelly Kennedy
You know, one of the things that you're working on is called ti what is ti?
Brian Hayes
Ty is a sales companion that I'm in the process of getting developed.
Brian Hayes
It's a, it's taken longer than I thought and it's quite expensive, so that's why it's taking a little longer.
Brian Hayes
But Sales companion.
Brian Hayes
Think of it as your Jiminy Cricket, you know, your little guy on your shoulder, kind of your conscience and he's, you know, prompting you, telling you, hey, this has happened.
Brian Hayes
You should try this.
Brian Hayes
So if you go to a virtual meeting and they say, no, I don't want your product because X or I don't want your product because the price point, it'll actually flash on your screen a prompt saying, try this.
Brian Hayes
So it's kind of coaching you.
Brian Hayes
Live action.
Brian Hayes
It's grading you.
Brian Hayes
It's not only is it watching what you're doing, but it'll be watching the client.
Brian Hayes
So if they kind of sit back, it could say something like, oh, get more engaged because they, they need to lean forward and lean in.
Brian Hayes
So body language and gestures are very important in sales.
Brian Hayes
Very important.
Brian Hayes
Like you need to be able to read the room and some people can't.
Brian Hayes
And it's really hard to learn that.
Brian Hayes
So it's really was developed because.
Brian Hayes
Or it's going to be developed because that's what I would like.
Brian Hayes
You know, as a salesperson, it was hard to practice your sales.
Brian Hayes
The only way to practice was to do it.
Brian Hayes
Call and burn leads.
Brian Hayes
Like, you could totally mess up and then never be able to call that person again because they'll be like, oh, you're that guy, that girl, that person.
Brian Hayes
So it allows you to role play, but it'll take from your previous interactions with clients and say, hey, we need to work on this.
Brian Hayes
Hey, we need to work on that.
Brian Hayes
So as a true companion.
Brian Hayes
And it's kind of like the note takers where you invite them to the, to the zoom meeting where it'll take the notes, but instead of taking notes, it's doing different things.
Kelly Kennedy
Wow, dude, that's actually really cool.
Kelly Kennedy
Like, really cool.
Brian Hayes
Thank you.
Kelly Kennedy
That's a great idea.
Brian Hayes
Thank you.
Kelly Kennedy
I've never.
Kelly Kennedy
I wasn't sure what it was before we had this conversation, but that's.
Kelly Kennedy
That is actually super, super useful.
Kelly Kennedy
Because some of the challenges that we see with our clients at Capital when we have meetings is simply that it's.
Kelly Kennedy
We.
Kelly Kennedy
We tend to attend the meetings with them to help take it to the next level.
Kelly Kennedy
Because like you said, a lot of them struggle with that meeting dynamic.
Kelly Kennedy
They're not really sure when to say what they need to say or how to ask for next steps or when to get more engaged.
Kelly Kennedy
Right.
Kelly Kennedy
So a little prompt like that sounds really, really useful, especially for a lot of these business owners doing their own sales.
Brian Hayes
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
And it's not.
Brian Hayes
It's the companion part I think is the most important.
Brian Hayes
Like you were saying, it's, we need someone there because your sales manager or the business owner can't be at every single meeting or he has other things he needs to attend to.
Brian Hayes
So it'll allow for him to know that, hey, it's being taken care of and I'll get a report later that they're all great.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah, yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
No, that's.
Kelly Kennedy
I can.
Kelly Kennedy
I can see this two ways.
Kelly Kennedy
I can already see some salespeople being like, oh, shit, they're gonna send a report on how good I handled each meeting.
Brian Hayes
Yep.
Brian Hayes
And then there's some like, oh, no, they're recording it.
Brian Hayes
You don't want to record my meetings.
Brian Hayes
Yeah, yeah.
Brian Hayes
Well, yeah.
Brian Hayes
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
You're different when the camera's on and it's being recorded.
Brian Hayes
Like, you act different.
Brian Hayes
It's just like putting on a suit.
Brian Hayes
You're like, we're gonna get a sale today.
Brian Hayes
You know, it's like we're watching time to perform.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
And.
Kelly Kennedy
Oh, man.
Kelly Kennedy
And, you know, we can talk about that because I think that business development and sales, like, we live in a time when everybody's saying, like, we need to be more authentic.
Kelly Kennedy
I actually completely agree with this.
Kelly Kennedy
I think we need to be more authentic.
Kelly Kennedy
We need to be more recognizing of people and when they're not doing okay.
Kelly Kennedy
Right.
Kelly Kennedy
But I faked a lot of meetings when I was feeling very, very shitty about whatever my current situation was.
Kelly Kennedy
But I had to put on a brave face, put on the act, and be Kelly.
Kelly Kennedy
Kelly Kennedy, the awesome business development guy who's super fun.
Kelly Kennedy
I had to be that guy, even though I was not feeling congruent with that.
Kelly Kennedy
And my advice now to business development people is when you're having an off day, don't be afraid to kind of say it.
Kelly Kennedy
Don't be afraid to reschedule those meetings.
Kelly Kennedy
Like, I'm.
Kelly Kennedy
I'm of the opinion now that that was probably the wrong way to handle that situation.
Kelly Kennedy
But at the time, I needed my paycheck, I needed to move forward, and I just put on the brave face and did it.
Kelly Kennedy
But my gosh, dude, I've done a lot of meetings, feeling like a pile of crap inside.
Brian Hayes
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
And there's.
Brian Hayes
I do the very same thing.
Brian Hayes
I never made a decision to do it.
Brian Hayes
I just started doing it.
Brian Hayes
You know, having your own company, you can kind of do that.
Brian Hayes
You're the own.
Brian Hayes
You're the boss, so I think he'll forgive you.
Brian Hayes
But I would reschedule.
Brian Hayes
And they're like, oh, you know what?
Brian Hayes
I'm actually feeling bad too.
Brian Hayes
Like, what's going on?
Brian Hayes
And then we get into a relationship building conversation because we have something in common.
Brian Hayes
Like, we both had a bad day.
Brian Hayes
It's just odd timing.
Brian Hayes
And then they become client, you know?
Brian Hayes
So you never want to know.
Brian Hayes
You never know how someone wants to purchase, and you never know how someone's going to connect with you.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
Yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
And I Think we've just spent so long pretending we're just.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah, yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
I love it.
Kelly Kennedy
There is something really special about this time that we're heading into.
Kelly Kennedy
I'm going to call it the post Covid era, because really, that's what.
Kelly Kennedy
That's what seemed to have changed at all.
Brian Hayes
Yep, absolutely.
Kelly Kennedy
There is something about being real and authentic.
Kelly Kennedy
And I just want to say, actually, I've watched a lot of your videos on LinkedIn.
Brian Hayes
Yeah, thanks.
Kelly Kennedy
You do a really great job of just being Brian Hayes showing up.
Kelly Kennedy
And, you know, I imagine, too, that that's probably a post Covid thing, because we're all kind of playing with this.
Kelly Kennedy
How can we be more human in the world on the Internet?
Kelly Kennedy
Right.
Kelly Kennedy
Instead of just being, you know, a business development person or a salesperson.
Kelly Kennedy
Right.
Kelly Kennedy
Like, there's people.
Kelly Kennedy
There's people behind those titles.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah, we care.
Kelly Kennedy
We want to know who they are.
Kelly Kennedy
Right.
Brian Hayes
Yes.
Kelly Kennedy
And I just want to say you're doing a great job with your social stuff.
Kelly Kennedy
You want to maybe chat a little bit about how you.
Kelly Kennedy
How you approach your social media.
Brian Hayes
You know, I want to say that there's a plan, but it's really, there's.
Brian Hayes
I'm just looking for something that I think is going to resonate with others that show what I'm trying to do.
Brian Hayes
So I'm.
Brian Hayes
I'm not trying to show off.
Brian Hayes
I'm just trying to show progress.
Brian Hayes
I'm trying to show movement.
Brian Hayes
I'm trying to show, hey, I'm doing something.
Brian Hayes
You know, it's almost like that's my boss is my clients or potential clients, that's your boss.
Brian Hayes
So you got to show them that you're moving, that you're doing something.
Brian Hayes
You're not just stagnant and doing nothing.
Brian Hayes
And, you know, when I look at someone's LinkedIn and they haven't posted, like, for months, it's not that I think bad about them.
Brian Hayes
I just think, man, you could do more.
Brian Hayes
Yeah, there's a little bit more than you could do, you know, like, provide something.
Brian Hayes
So I'm just trying to put as much information out there that about myself and what I'm doing to show that to prospective clients.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
So there's no run or reason.
Brian Hayes
I mean, there's like, I want to celebrate holidays, I want to celebrate things.
Brian Hayes
But this whole podcast thing, this is all new.
Brian Hayes
I have 12 of them lined up.
Kelly Kennedy
Wow.
Brian Hayes
Yeah, I was surprised about that, too.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
You're number four.
Kelly Kennedy
Okay.
Kelly Kennedy
Amazing.
Kelly Kennedy
I love to be near the beginning.
Brian Hayes
I wish you were number one, but I got some Practice out of the way.
Brian Hayes
How about that?
Brian Hayes
Yeah, yeah, but it's.
Brian Hayes
There's no rhyme or reason.
Brian Hayes
I'm just trying to show movement.
Brian Hayes
And I think that's what we have to do in sales is you just have to show, hey, I'm doing something.
Brian Hayes
Because you're showing investment time and energy and focus.
Kelly Kennedy
You're also putting yourself out there, right?
Kelly Kennedy
And I think that that is currency in 2024 and beyond.
Kelly Kennedy
There's something that happened.
Kelly Kennedy
I don't know when it happened.
Kelly Kennedy
I wanna say, like 2023.
Kelly Kennedy
I like to say that.
Kelly Kennedy
Cause that's when I started this show.
Kelly Kennedy
But I feel like a switch flipped, right?
Kelly Kennedy
And it was like, look, you know companies, it's time to stop hiding behind your companies.
Kelly Kennedy
People wanna know the owners of companies.
Kelly Kennedy
They wanna know the CEOs, the executives, what they're doing, why they care, why what they're doing matters, how they're helping the world.
Kelly Kennedy
And they don't just wanna hear about it.
Kelly Kennedy
They wanna see you.
Kelly Kennedy
And so it really is like getting out there and being front and center and basically taking ownership of who you are and sharing that with the world is currency.
Kelly Kennedy
It really is.
Kelly Kennedy
It's a currency in 2024.
Kelly Kennedy
And so I'm always kind of recommending people.
Kelly Kennedy
I know it's scary.
Kelly Kennedy
Like, take it from me, dude, we talked about this before the show.
Kelly Kennedy
You were nervous and I was telling you, dude, I still get nervous.
Kelly Kennedy
There's still plenty of times where I get nervous crap.
Kelly Kennedy
Like, but.
Kelly Kennedy
But it goes away, right?
Kelly Kennedy
Like, I've interviewed people that scared the bejesus out of me.
Kelly Kennedy
But within two minutes of that interview, I was feeling great.
Kelly Kennedy
I was feeling fine.
Kelly Kennedy
They were feeling fine.
Kelly Kennedy
And you realize that it passes, right?
Kelly Kennedy
Like, that fear, that, like fear you have, it's like it's.
Kelly Kennedy
It's animal in nature.
Kelly Kennedy
It really is.
Kelly Kennedy
It, like, probably goes back to our caveman days.
Kelly Kennedy
We're running from saber tooth tigers, right?
Kelly Kennedy
But we're not running from saber tooth tigers anymore, right?
Kelly Kennedy
Like, nothing in business is going to kill you, right?
Kelly Kennedy
Like a bad phone call ain't going to kill you.
Kelly Kennedy
A bad meeting ain't going to kill you.
Kelly Kennedy
A speech ain't going to kill you, but we still internalize it.
Kelly Kennedy
Like it's going to kill us and we get afraid.
Kelly Kennedy
But what I've found, and, you know, don't get me wrong, like, I still have plenty of scary moments.
Kelly Kennedy
I've had plenty of meetings where I get anxiety.
Kelly Kennedy
And I'm probably in that for a minute or two at least in that time.
Kelly Kennedy
But in my experience, it always passes.
Kelly Kennedy
And maybe I'll find the day it doesn't.
Kelly Kennedy
But I haven't found that day yet.
Brian Hayes
Like, oh, it hasn't left.
Brian Hayes
I'm still.
Brian Hayes
Butterflies are still there.
Kelly Kennedy
It's been three days.
Brian Hayes
I'll let you know and then go away.
Brian Hayes
No, that's right.
Kelly Kennedy
But you mean I'm always here encouraging people to just take the jump.
Brian Hayes
Well, we don't want to be judged.
Brian Hayes
We don't want to be judged.
Brian Hayes
And we.
Brian Hayes
And if we are judged, we want to be judged.
Brian Hayes
Well, and that's the hard part is.
Brian Hayes
And I tell this to.
Brian Hayes
I have a young man working with me.
Brian Hayes
His name's Linus Mueller out of Switzerland.
Brian Hayes
It was so crazy, so much fun.
Brian Hayes
I always tell him, don't put your words in their mouth.
Brian Hayes
Don't take their.
Brian Hayes
Your perspective and assume that's their perspective.
Brian Hayes
So don't assume anything.
Brian Hayes
Manage your expectations.
Brian Hayes
Understand that there could be another possibility.
Brian Hayes
Like, what if they're judging me?
Brian Hayes
Well, what if it's good?
Kelly Kennedy
Sure.
Brian Hayes
So it's just that.
Kelly Kennedy
Well, and I think we're our biggest judges.
Brian Hayes
Yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
Like, I'm judging me all the time.
Kelly Kennedy
Right.
Kelly Kennedy
Like, oh, I've.
Kelly Kennedy
I've had plenty of shows where I listen to it.
Kelly Kennedy
Like, I'll tell you straight up, episode three of the business development podcast.
Kelly Kennedy
I didn't want to release it.
Kelly Kennedy
I didn't want to release it.
Kelly Kennedy
I didn't like the show.
Kelly Kennedy
Nobody noticed.
Kelly Kennedy
Nobody noticed.
Kelly Kennedy
I made mistakes.
Kelly Kennedy
Whatever else, nobody noticed anything.
Kelly Kennedy
I have no fear now saying, like, if you guys want to hear the episode that I hated, it was episode.
Kelly Kennedy
There was really nothing wrong with it.
Kelly Kennedy
I was judging myself.
Kelly Kennedy
And I like.
Kelly Kennedy
And we all do it.
Kelly Kennedy
We all do it.
Kelly Kennedy
But, like, what I'm kind of getting at here is I released episode three anyway.
Kelly Kennedy
Never got one negative comment from.
Brian Hayes
Isn't that funny?
Brian Hayes
Right?
Brian Hayes
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
I always say, don't put your perspective in their mouth.
Brian Hayes
And that's a big thing when you're in sales, because you're going to think, oh, they probably don't like my product, or, oh, maybe the price is too high and they're not going to like the price.
Brian Hayes
And so you're going to deliver it with that in mind.
Brian Hayes
People vibe on that.
Brian Hayes
Like, yeah, like, even though we're states and miles apart, like, I got you.
Brian Hayes
I can hear your wavelength.
Brian Hayes
And so people will pick up on that how you register.
Brian Hayes
And this is our price, you know, so they're gonna.
Brian Hayes
They're gonna push back on that totally.
Brian Hayes
So you just don't.
Brian Hayes
Don't put your perspective out there.
Brian Hayes
The negative ones, you know well, and.
Kelly Kennedy
What you kind of touched on right there in.
Kelly Kennedy
In literally the way that you said, this is our price.
Kelly Kennedy
There was a massive lack of confidence.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah, a massive lack of confidence.
Kelly Kennedy
And I will tell you the difference between closing that deal is saying this is our price versus this is our price.
Brian Hayes
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
This is.
Kelly Kennedy
Like you said, body language.
Kelly Kennedy
Right?
Kelly Kennedy
Body language.
Kelly Kennedy
The way you say things really matters.
Kelly Kennedy
It was funny.
Kelly Kennedy
I was actually coaching a guy not that long ago and he's like, I'm sending so many of these emails.
Kelly Kennedy
I'm making all these phone calls.
Kelly Kennedy
I said, you know, from the email, it kind of sounds okay, but there's a couple things you're saying here that aren't conveying your confidence.
Kelly Kennedy
It's coming across with an unsureness and talking to him on the phone and he kind of went through the pitch with me and literally the correction was so minor, but it was primarily to do with the way that he sounded on the phone.
Kelly Kennedy
I really need you to come through confident in your product and service.
Kelly Kennedy
Like it's something they actually want.
Kelly Kennedy
Like they're really going to want to meet with you.
Kelly Kennedy
And even in the email, it was like, I need you to stop asking them and let them know that you're available at these times.
Brian Hayes
Next time.
Kelly Kennedy
You'd love to meet with me.
Brian Hayes
Yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
Right.
Brian Hayes
Rule number one, everyone has.
Kelly Kennedy
So stupid.
Kelly Kennedy
It's dumb because you look at those two things and you think, well, yeah, but honestly, it's the small intricacies that are hanging you up.
Kelly Kennedy
It's probably.
Kelly Kennedy
It's probably something pretty minor.
Brian Hayes
Yes, yes.
Brian Hayes
And that's the hardest part is to pick it out and kind of going back to what we were saying before.
Brian Hayes
Look for help, ask people for help.
Brian Hayes
I had to go outside of my home state, Dallas, Texas or my.
Brian Hayes
My home town.
Brian Hayes
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
Out of the town I live in to find help for elevate X sales.
Brian Hayes
Because the.
Brian Hayes
My network, that's your net worth.
Brian Hayes
Not that they wouldn't help me.
Brian Hayes
They all said, don't do it.
Brian Hayes
Go back and get a job.
Brian Hayes
Like, you already tried, man.
Brian Hayes
You didn't get it.
Brian Hayes
It's okay.
Brian Hayes
Just be a normal guy.
Brian Hayes
Go work a job and do your thing.
Brian Hayes
And I had to look outside of country to find help.
Brian Hayes
And that's just the craziest part.
Brian Hayes
So you just have to look for.
Brian Hayes
Look for a tool and then put it together.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
No, it really is.
Kelly Kennedy
And you know, you touched on something that to me seems very, like, obvious, but is really not Obvious.
Kelly Kennedy
Can you maybe elaborate?
Kelly Kennedy
You talked about empathy.
Kelly Kennedy
That's something that is like one of your key traits, empathy in sales.
Kelly Kennedy
You hear a lot about people being empathetic.
Kelly Kennedy
Empathetic or being.
Kelly Kennedy
What is it?
Kelly Kennedy
Emotionally intelligent is the other word.
Kelly Kennedy
But can we maybe go into depth about how companies can better utilize empathy in their sales process?
Brian Hayes
Empathy, if you don't know what empathy is, is.
Brian Hayes
You're.
Brian Hayes
You're looking outside their eyes and experiencing their life.
Brian Hayes
Not with your knowledge, not with your opinions.
Brian Hayes
You need to get to know who they are and pretend for a moment that you were them.
Brian Hayes
And how would they want to be treated if.
Brian Hayes
Or how would you want to be treated if you were in their shoes?
Brian Hayes
And that is the hardest part because we put our opinions in there.
Brian Hayes
And I'm like, no, no.
Brian Hayes
No opinions, no knowledge.
Brian Hayes
You are that person.
Brian Hayes
How would you feel?
Brian Hayes
And I think that companies can really benefit from this, especially when they do mass layoffs.
Brian Hayes
Like, come on, like, I know you want to save some money, but is there another way?
Brian Hayes
And there probably is, and maybe there isn't, you know, so you have to make that understanding of, well, how would it feel if I got fired?
Brian Hayes
If I was in their shoes with their life, with their kids, with their responsibilities, not my own responsibility.
Brian Hayes
And I think people, in order to really do empathy, you have to drop what you have and pretend that you're them.
Brian Hayes
And that's hard.
Kelly Kennedy
It is.
Brian Hayes
And I had to do that as a personal trainer.
Brian Hayes
I had to really do that.
Brian Hayes
And that was the only way I learned empathy.
Brian Hayes
And how to do it was, you know, envisioning if I was that person doing that exercise, that movement, how would that make me feel if I was self conscious about being in the gym?
Brian Hayes
Because I know that person.
Brian Hayes
That's what that person told me.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
So, like, why would I put them in that obvious of a uncomfortable situation?
Brian Hayes
Yeah, it's something you gotta practice.
Brian Hayes
It's a perspective in life that's really tough.
Brian Hayes
My poor fiance is like, why don't you do empathy with me?
Brian Hayes
I was like, honey, I already know what you're saying.
Brian Hayes
Like, quiet down.
Brian Hayes
But it's something you need to continue to practice and, like, think about, like, how would it really be to be them.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
Not me, them.
Kelly Kennedy
And I think you have to ask.
Kelly Kennedy
Right?
Kelly Kennedy
I think the other side of it is, like you said, you can't think like Kelly Kennedy and I can't think like Brian Hayes because I don't live in your mind every day.
Kelly Kennedy
I don't live in your world or your experience.
Kelly Kennedy
And so my advice, and I don't know how you feel about this, might simply be to ask.
Kelly Kennedy
If you have questions about how they feel about something, don't be afraid to ask because like you said before, you don't know what people are thinking and you can't assume or you'll make an ass out of you and me.
Brian Hayes
Yes, it's true.
Brian Hayes
Open ended questions.
Brian Hayes
And if you actually are curious, like that's another thing with empathy is like, I actually want to know.
Brian Hayes
I'm not just checking something off my list, like, I want to know because I'm trying to understand you, like, tell me about that, like why and really ask those open ended questions to try to figure it out and just be genuinely like, I just want to know.
Brian Hayes
Yeah, I'm not just trying to make a sale.
Kelly Kennedy
One of the things that I really wanted to chat with you about, Brian, is I wanted to better understand some of the challenges that you're seeing in the sales field.
Kelly Kennedy
You know, you've been, you've had elevate X, you're out there working with companies.
Kelly Kennedy
What are some of the challenges that you're running into fairly consistently?
Kelly Kennedy
What are you seeing on a consistent basis with these companies you're working with?
Kelly Kennedy
Are there like a handful of challenges that seem to be coming up pretty consistently?
Brian Hayes
Yes.
Brian Hayes
Sourcing contact information for a prospect and then trying to like find a database.
Brian Hayes
Everyone uses the same database right now.
Brian Hayes
It's called Apollo I.O.
Brian Hayes
and everyone's calling the same people, the same type, but it's trying to find, not trying to narrow it down.
Brian Hayes
It's like, when should I call them and who should I call?
Brian Hayes
And finding it specifically.
Brian Hayes
They don't know their data.
Brian Hayes
They're like, yeah, we want someone that is male between the age of 25 and 45.
Brian Hayes
I'm like, no, that's not even close.
Brian Hayes
Like, what are, who are they?
Brian Hayes
Yeah, like really get into who they are and who is your customer.
Brian Hayes
That's the biggest, I think the number one biggest struggle.
Brian Hayes
They don't know their target audience, they don't know how to sell to them and they also don't know how to buy, how they want to buy.
Brian Hayes
Because some people want to communicate through WhatsApp, some people want to communicate through LinkedIn, some people are texting, hey, give me a call, leave me a voicemail, I'll call you back.
Brian Hayes
You know, some.
Brian Hayes
So you just have to figure out how they want to buy and how they want to communicate.
Brian Hayes
Those are the two biggest ones.
Brian Hayes
The other one, I think it's less Important, but it's still pretty important, is retaining salespeople like good salespeople.
Brian Hayes
Yes, that's a big one.
Brian Hayes
And so they, they're even.
Brian Hayes
Even if they hired me, they're like, are you gonna leave?
Brian Hayes
Like, probably.
Brian Hayes
You say that.
Kelly Kennedy
You'Re already priming me.
Brian Hayes
Man, I'm already gone, man.
Brian Hayes
You signed that already.
Brian Hayes
Yeah, but it's, it's capturing someone's attention and keeping it.
Brian Hayes
Yeah, and that's hard in sales, I think, because everyone's looking for the grab greener grass on the other side.
Brian Hayes
Sometimes it is greener and sometimes it's not.
Brian Hayes
Sometimes it's worse.
Brian Hayes
You just don't see it because you want to see it a different way.
Brian Hayes
Putting your perspective.
Brian Hayes
You're putting your, your opinion out there again.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah, yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
Well, I think one of the biggest challenges we have now, and you know, we talked about this ahead of the show, is that people are getting bombarded with so much stuff that's promising them things that I think me and, you know, are probably not going to happen.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah, but they don't know that, right?
Kelly Kennedy
Like, they don't know if they get, if they get someone coming up to them and saying, like, hey, I got this virtual assistant that can get you 50 leads in the next week.
Kelly Kennedy
They don't know what to believe and what not to believe.
Kelly Kennedy
Do you have any, like, guidelines or rules that you would maybe give to companies to better screen out what is an authentically good move versus what is, you know, a high risk move?
Kelly Kennedy
And I think the reason they're so confused is because like you said, with the advent of AI, nobody knows what's really possible and what's not possible.
Brian Hayes
Yep, yep.
Brian Hayes
I am looking at my spam box and I deleted, like, at least every day.
Brian Hayes
I got.
Brian Hayes
I have received 66 different email, probably AI, most of them AI.
Brian Hayes
My opinion and my advice is ask them to do it for free.
Brian Hayes
Like, okay, show me, show me the money.
Brian Hayes
Show me the real stuff.
Brian Hayes
Like, make them prove it.
Brian Hayes
And I don't know how that is for anyone's business, but make them prove it.
Brian Hayes
And not testimonials.
Brian Hayes
Oh, well, this person said this about me.
Brian Hayes
Well, that's, that's great.
Brian Hayes
It's not me.
Brian Hayes
Like, prove it for me.
Brian Hayes
So bring me value and I'll provide you value, which is my time and your ability to represent or maybe your client.
Brian Hayes
So you have to always bring value.
Brian Hayes
So when I call somebody, I'm like, hey, I thought that this would benefit you.
Brian Hayes
Do you have a moment to talk about something that benefits me?
Brian Hayes
So you're asking for their time, but you're paying for it.
Brian Hayes
At least that's how it is in Real Estate City.
Kelly Kennedy
Okay.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah, I know, man.
Kelly Kennedy
Like I.
Kelly Kennedy
Like you said, like, my inbox too, is full of it.
Kelly Kennedy
And the funny thing is, it's like, obviously I have a business development firm where we focus on active marketing.
Kelly Kennedy
So we're not really using AI, right?
Kelly Kennedy
Like, we're using old school, real phone calls, real people doing real work.
Kelly Kennedy
Like, that's, that's what I've always found.
Kelly Kennedy
Just worked and.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
Is it, Is it, Does it, does it take a minute?
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah, it takes a minute.
Kelly Kennedy
There's nothing that's fast.
Kelly Kennedy
There's nothing that's going to happen overnight.
Kelly Kennedy
Business development is not a race, right?
Kelly Kennedy
No, good business development takes time.
Kelly Kennedy
I've said that since the very beginning.
Kelly Kennedy
But it's effective, very effective, especially with active marketing.
Kelly Kennedy
But you know, I use AI tools, right?
Kelly Kennedy
Like we use ChatGPT to help us with some copy.
Kelly Kennedy
I still throw myself back into it and I always tell people, stop completely copying and pasting because you sound like a robot.
Brian Hayes
Or you use a word that you're not normally using.
Kelly Kennedy
That's right.
Kelly Kennedy
That's right.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
If there's a word that you're like, I'd never use that.
Kelly Kennedy
Put your word in there.
Brian Hayes
Yes.
Kelly Kennedy
But you know, not just that, not just ChatGPT, right?
Kelly Kennedy
Like, obviously, running this podcast, I use AI tools.
Kelly Kennedy
We use stuff like Riverside, which we're in right now recording this show.
Kelly Kennedy
We use opus clips to help us with the clips.
Kelly Kennedy
We use other things to help us with the transcripts and our audiograms and other things that we like to put out with our shows.
Kelly Kennedy
So there's a lot of tools being used and some of them are very redundant because they have maybe one thing that the other one doesn't have.
Kelly Kennedy
So I need to keep the stupid tool even though I'm paying stupid amounts of money for all of these monthly subscriptions.
Kelly Kennedy
Right.
Kelly Kennedy
And it's driving me bonkers.
Kelly Kennedy
And.
Kelly Kennedy
Oh, man, Like, I just, I know people are being inundated with these crazy AI tools and they don't know what to go with or what's effective.
Kelly Kennedy
And like I said, we're using redundant ones that can maybe do something that other people do.
Kelly Kennedy
You have any advice for people that are.
Kelly Kennedy
That are using these tools?
Brian Hayes
It's AI is never going to replace you.
Brian Hayes
As much as someone says they're going to, it's not going to.
Brian Hayes
And the reason for that is people buy from people and that's always going to be because they want to hold someone accountable.
Brian Hayes
So if they're reaching out and saying, oh, we'll reach out and we'll set all these appointments for you, we'll.
Brian Hayes
They're not going to be quality.
Brian Hayes
They're not going to be there.
Brian Hayes
Just probably someone's like, yeah, just messing around because he knows it's the AI.
Brian Hayes
So use what is not time tested, but use what is authentic and real and it's never going to replace you.
Brian Hayes
And just use it as a tool.
Brian Hayes
That's all it is.
Brian Hayes
It's supposed to help you be a better you, not replace anything.
Kelly Kennedy
And that's why I think I really love the idea of your tool, Ty, because that's going to be so cool.
Kelly Kennedy
Because that's the problem.
Kelly Kennedy
That is a real life problem.
Kelly Kennedy
We're doing lots of meetings.
Kelly Kennedy
Business owners are meeting with people all the time.
Kelly Kennedy
If they had a tool that could be live action with them, giving them ideas on how to better execute a meeting.
Kelly Kennedy
My gosh, how powerful.
Kelly Kennedy
That's a really great idea.
Brian Hayes
Thank you.
Brian Hayes
Thank you.
Brian Hayes
I need to hurry up because someone's going to take this idea.
Brian Hayes
Let's open this podcast while you have.
Kelly Kennedy
A little bit of time.
Kelly Kennedy
This show is probably releasing about four months from now, so you just got to be faster than that.
Brian Hayes
Yes.
Kelly Kennedy
No pressure.
Brian Hayes
Clock starts today.
Kelly Kennedy
Oh, Brian, it's been an honor, dude.
Kelly Kennedy
Thank you for coming on and sharing this with us.
Kelly Kennedy
You know, I would love it if you would chat a little bit about Elevate X, though.
Kelly Kennedy
Can you tell us a little bit about what services you offer, what areas you serve, and then we'll go from there?
Brian Hayes
Absolutely.
Brian Hayes
Elevate X Sales is a marketing agency for commercial real estate professionals and commercial real estate owners.
Brian Hayes
And we're offering a suite of services from just regular social media marketing to doing it for you and setting tours and reaching out to specific tenants in a geographic area that might be interested in a vacant space that you have at your building or then we'll actually do it for you, which is we're actually going to take the deal from the initial online presence, the lead to tour, to closing the deal and facilitating the transaction.
Brian Hayes
And it's.
Brian Hayes
We're trying to bring life to commercial real estate.
Brian Hayes
Bring some not authenticity, but bring some entertainment to it.
Brian Hayes
Boring.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Brian Hayes
And everyone knows, everyone thinks it's just about the numbers.
Brian Hayes
And so we need to add some color to it and really paint a better picture of what it's going to be for your business.
Brian Hayes
So we're putting out specific content, property tours, kind of like, I don't know if you've ever seen the Property Brothers.
Kelly Kennedy
Yep.
Brian Hayes
Where they actually will go in with their camera and then all of a sudden they're like, oh, and it can do this.
Brian Hayes
And all this stuff turns and all the walls come down.
Brian Hayes
I want to do that for commercial real estate.
Kelly Kennedy
Very cool, Very cool.
Kelly Kennedy
And, you know, obviously you're in Dallas.
Kelly Kennedy
We've talked about that.
Kelly Kennedy
But is this, like, North America wide?
Kelly Kennedy
Like, is there anywhere you wouldn't service?
Brian Hayes
Well, the only difference, I can practice real estate, and so it depends on which package you decide, but it can be anywhere because the rules and regulations will be upheld when it comes to the advertising portion of it.
Brian Hayes
But when it comes to the actual execution of the transaction, I can do stuff in Texas, I can do stuff outside of Texas, but I have to have.
Brian Hayes
I have to facilitate with a broker in that area to do it legally.
Brian Hayes
So then that becomes sticky.
Brian Hayes
So we can do it all in the United States, North America.
Brian Hayes
It depends on what your real estate regulations are.
Brian Hayes
And we would have to talk about that on a.
Brian Hayes
On a separate one.
Brian Hayes
But the other services, SEO Management Online.
Brian Hayes
Think of it as your online listing in your online presence of your property.
Brian Hayes
Does it have a social media presence?
Brian Hayes
Does it even have a following?
Brian Hayes
Or is it gaining cobwebs?
Brian Hayes
Like, tell me about it.
Brian Hayes
You know, let's.
Brian Hayes
Let's put out as much information to reach as many people because someone might use Facebook, someone might use YouTube, someone might use LinkedIn, but they're all going to be a target tenant for you, so you might as well try them all.
Brian Hayes
And that's what we're doing, as well as email and cold call outreach and things of that nature.
Kelly Kennedy
Yeah.
Kelly Kennedy
The reason I asked is that, you know, obviously we have a large North American audience, we have a big Canadian audience and a big U.S.
Kelly Kennedy
audience.
Kelly Kennedy
And I did just want to know, can you service Canada?
Kelly Kennedy
Is that on the table for you?
Brian Hayes
I would love to.
Brian Hayes
International.
Brian Hayes
That is definitely in the plans.
Brian Hayes
Definitely in the plans.
Brian Hayes
When it comes to execution of a transaction, I would probably refer that to a local real estate professional there to do the negotiations and the transaction.
Brian Hayes
But the online presence of it.
Brian Hayes
Absolutely.
Brian Hayes
I would fly to Canada just to make some content.
Brian Hayes
That would be so much fun.
Brian Hayes
Just not in the winter.
Kelly Kennedy
I was going to say we got some nice mountains, but yeah, I would say keep it to spring and summer.
Brian Hayes
Because it's better for the lighting of the video.
Kelly Kennedy
Absolutely, Absolutely.
Kelly Kennedy
Brian, thank you so much.
Kelly Kennedy
We've been graced today by Brian Hayes of Elevate X Sales.
Kelly Kennedy
And thanks for sharing your knowledge with us.
Kelly Kennedy
Your vulnerability.
Kelly Kennedy
I think, I think we probably helped that one or two businesses today.
Kelly Kennedy
So I think we did what we set out to do.
Brian Hayes
Yes.
Kelly Kennedy
Until next time, this has been episode 182 of the Business Development Podcast and we will catch you on the flip side.
Brian Hayes
Bye everyone.
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